In the second half of life, do not let yourself idle too much

People are too idle, it is easy to think, nothing to find things to do, either looking for people to chat about gossip, or head empty another day, and even some people will be idle to count the number of ants on the ground.

However, their leisure is fine, the most fear is to affect others.

Thinking that others are as idle as they are, but do not think that not everyone is so idle.

You have nothing to talk to people gossip, in other people seem to be delaying her time, once or twice is okay, time will become others to avoid the people, see your figure will want to immediately turn around and run.

There is this time idle, it is better to learn to find something to do, to pass the time, but also learn new skills.

1, idle over the head, people are wasted

I have a friend, in a "pension" unit.

Originally she was excited to go in to show off their skills and realize their life values.

They had thought, after entering the day with her imagination is not the same, every day is idle, but whenever she showed a little positive, the old colleagues will interrupt her, ask her: "Why are you so loaded, want to roll us?"

Was said more times, she slowly can not afford to work properly, thinking that either from the stream to touch the fish.

But idle, after doing things slowly, she found herself doing things less and less efficiently.

Not pretend, but really, she seems to be slowly homogenized.

She is confused do not know what to do.

Some people advised her to stay, saying that she met such a good retirement unit, and of course, must continue to stay.

Some people advised her to change jobs, saying that it would be a waste of time to continue, and eventually, even you will forget all the original.

Later, she thought, again and again, chose to resign, a very busy job, at first, always can not keep up with the pace, but often learn in private, over time it slowly caught on, and then she slowly find once ambitious, no longer like the previous day to touch the fish.

In life, we have aspired to more money and less work, but encountered will be afraid, afraid of their young age into the retirement stage, can stay for life, even if the most afraid is to raise you after the waste will dismiss you, then you should adapt to the reality of the busy work.

After the "disconnect" from society, and then wanting to return to that can be difficult.

As the old saying goes, "learn good for three years, learn bad for three days," once people are too idle, lazy over the head, and then want to be diligent is difficult.

Do people, no matter what, not let themselves idle too much, otherwise it is easy to unknowingly raise their waste.

There is time to do nothing, it is better to spend some time on things that interest you, and persistently persist every day, the interest in the skills they are good at, more effort, less emptiness, and life will continue to get better.

2, too idle, will have nothing to find things

Have seen a story like this?

A person retired, suddenly idle let her very uncomfortable, every day feel that time passes very slowly, under nothing to do, she thought of going to her son's home to see, just went to the time, she did not do anything every day in addition to with the grandchildren.

But over time, she began to look at her daughter-in-law, feeling that she does not do housework seriously, speech is not big and small, and spending money is not measured ...... somehow, originally felt like a satisfied daughter-in-law, but now seems to be full of problems.

Then, she always picks on her daughter-in-law from time to time, making the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law worse and worse.

She felt she was right, but her son approached her for a chat and he said, "Mom, I think you've changed. You used to not find anything to do, but now you're a bit unreasonable, and it feels like you can't do it without fighting with Ling when it's clear you used to like her so much."

"I just suddenly think there's something wrong with her, which is nothing to find trouble."

"Mom, I think you may be too idle, you used to like painting? How about enrolling you in a training course to learn, take this opportunity to learn a good deal better."

Later, she saw her son's strong attitude, but also can not refute it, so patient to learn.

I never thought that people have something to do, but lazy to pick things up.

The "sheepskin scroll" mentioned: that "people are busy when there are not many complex emotions; people are too idle, only then will take the chicken feathers seriously." In the final analysis, is too idle trouble.

In reality, there is a lot of relationship discord, from idle nothing, only in the chat gossip, talk about family life, talk about right and wrong, so will take the chicken scratch seriously, in fact, which is so many things, but it is nothing to find things.

There is time to quarrel with others, it is better to do what you want to do.

Things are looking for will be there, if you think you are too idle, you can find something of interest to do.

Not let you schedule yourself full of time, make every day very busy, just do not be too idle, all day nothing to do, no matter what is done, people have something to do, the spirit will have to be anchored, not to go to the nonsense, nothing to find things.

3.

This life is quite long.

Some people have nothing to do all day, some people are busy all day dizzy.

Of course, there is no shortage of people who are sometimes busy and sometimes idle.

No matter what you do, to the extreme is harmful, too much leisure is easy to find things, and too much busy is easy to tire yourself.

So, a relaxed life is the best.

In the future, I hope we can live the life we want, maybe not too much money, but full of fun, work hard, life is positive, tired of rest, idle to find things to do, do not pursue the extreme, do their good.