How good a person is, how hard he works behind the scenes

The school reunion is a cloister, mixed with good people to drum up enough energy intended for prestige, mixed with bad even to participate in the interest.

Although the good and bad mix can not be judged by education alone, education is indeed a door knocker to a new class.

Many times, the level of education determines the starting point of your life, the famous school, the character of the people can enter a large factory after graduation, with more opportunities than ordinary people too much.

However, behind most of the "leading" is the accumulation of efforts.

If there is no more than ordinary people's efforts, and how to have the difference between the sky and the earth.

Those who are excellent, the so-called lucky, more is the result of self-effort, is in others just play, silently improve their accumulation of every night.

1、Focus and try to improve yourself

The same environment, the same starting point of people, but ultimately towards the two extremes, the reason, will find that the gap between the pole and the pole is in the daily "behavior" pulled apart.

How you treat time, time will be how to give back to you.

Mixing with efforts to improve themselves, the difference is not much in a short period, but over time will slowly open up the gap, and then it is too late to catch up.

Instead of spending time on playfulness, it is better to spend more time doing what should be done.

Like wanting to be a writer, just thinking is useless, you need to rely on day after day practice to improve your writing level, if only three days to fish, two days to sunbathe like perfunctory, that dream will always be a dream.

As Haruki Murakami said, "A life without concentration is like a life with eyes wide open and seeing nothing."

Only by concentrating on writing, focusing within a few hours continuously, it is possible to improve one's writing level, otherwise writing one day, stopping one day, never persist, and it will never be possible to make dreams come true.

Life in the world has a lot of time for fun and games, but the opportunity to change life is rare, to know how to seize the opportunity to focus on doing what should be done at the time of effort, to make life usher in a new high point.

2、Open your eyes and improve your pattern

Most people have heard the story of the frog at the bottom of the well.

Because of the limited scope that can be seen at the bottom of the well, they think that is the whole world, but they do not think that the world is much bigger than it.

Nowadays, we are not like this, what we see and hear is all around us, although we can learn about the outside world from other channels, but how many people will take the initiative to explore the outside world?

Many times, a person's eyes are too low, stuck in life, trapped in interests, it is difficult to see the other.

Thinking that the mind spent on gain and loss can seek benefits, but did not think that it is just playing smart, seemingly win, but lose, there is time to count gains and losses, it is better to see the outside world, contact more people.

Those who had thought not to lose, see more will find nothing great, temporary loss, does not mean forever, only to make themselves better, to have more options.

When the field of vision is narrow, you can see only the immediate gains and losses, but when the field of vision is open, you can see the essence through things.

Therefore, only when you look far enough, you will not be blinded by the immediate gains and losses, to better grasp the overall situation.

3、Physical action, the plan will be practiced to the end

However, talking more is not as good as doing.

Many times, the plan is written well, only to say not to do is ultimately a false trick, moved by their own, but can not change the reality.

Have that time to move, rather than forcing themselves a hand, the plan will be practiced in the end.

Although the process is very difficult, but the results will not let people down, only to persevere to the end, survived countless times "give up", to get the final result the bittersweet.

Life does not have many opportunities to start over, want to live a better life, first of all, we must act first, only persist in the end, to achieve better.

In others still "later to do" hanging in the mouth, you have long been physically to enhance their own, seemingly small gap, but in fact, slowly open the gap.

Learn martial arts, it is important to practice more, those who have arranged the plan well but did not do it can never compare to those who are physically doing, only their own more action, to lead others more than one step.

It is better to talk more than to do and to do physically to be one step ahead and achieve a better self.