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HOW DO CHANGE MY LIFE

Transforming MY Life: A Strategy for a Lasting Change

By Beatrice KinyuaPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
HOW DO CHANGE MY LIFE
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As we gather with family during the holiday season, it's hard not to feel that time is slipping through our fingers. Another year is ending, and we're left pondering the changes we want to make in our lives. It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of New Year's resolutions, but let's be real – how often do those actually stick? Well, fear not. I've got a strategy that might just help you turn those dreams into reality.

1. Start Small, Focus Big:

Before you dive into a whirlwind of life-altering changes, let's pump the brakes a bit. Pick one thing. Just one. It might seem counterintuitive, but focusing on just that one thing can make all the difference. Think about where you want to be in the next five years – financially, socially, mentally. Got it? Good. Now break it down into a tiny daily habit that nudges you in that direction.

For example, imagine rocking that beach body. Well, guess what? Hitting the gym consistently is your key to success. Commit to it. Yes, just that one thing. Later on, you can think about adding more to your plate.

2. Flex That Willpower:

Let's talk about pushing yourself. I know, I know, it sounds intense, but trust me – it's worth it. We all have those days when Netflix seems way more appealing than hitting the treadmill, right? But here's the thing: pushing through that resistance is like a mini victory. It's like giving yourself a high-five for not caving to laziness.

So, when you're tired or your brain is whispering excuses, show it who's boss. Force yourself to do the thing you know is good for you. You'll surprise yourself with the satisfaction that follows – a little triumph over that nagging voice that tried to hold you back.

3. Make It Your Own:

Let's get real – not every habit is going to be rainbows and unicorns. Sometimes you've got to tweak things to fit your style. Hate deadlifts but want to stay fit? Enter the hex bar. Hate reading books but want to be well-read? Audiobooks, my friend. It's like customizing your life upgrade.

And guess what? You're allowed to enjoy the process. Yep, you read that right. If you want to be a gym rat, learn to savor the burn. If you're aiming for bookworm status, find joy in those pages. The trick is to find pleasure in the journey itself, not just the finish line.

4. Take Your Time:

Transforming your life isn't a race. It's a marathon, not a sprint. Don't try to tackle a dozen changes at once – that's a surefire recipe for overwhelm. Instead, make it a monthly mission. Master one habit in a month, then move on to the next. Slow and steady wins this race.

5. Check Yourself:

As you progress, take a step back now and then. How's it going? Are you still enjoying the process? If not, it might be time to tweak things. Remember, this is your journey, your life. It's perfectly okay to fine-tune your approach to make it work better for you.

Conclusion:

So there you have it – a down-to-earth strategy for turning your dreams into your reality. Start small, flex your willpower, make it fun, take your time, and keep checking in. Whether it's New Year's, summer, or any day of the year, this approach can guide you toward real, lasting change. Life's an adventure, so why not make it the one you've always wanted? Get out there and start making those dreams happen!

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  • Beatrice Kinyua (Author)2 years ago

    i hope this helps you .

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