Getting Lost and Finding Yourself

The best adventures start with a loss. Whether you are taking the wrong path for the road home or taking the wrong turn in your life, there comes a time when you need to stop and ask yourself- what now? it is then that you will face a variety of teeth, which can help you research your shortcomings and realize your strengths. "Do I know you?" you will ask. Then turn around, search for directions around and choose a route that you feel you can take and follow without looking back ... well, until you turn around again.

All hungry travelers and travelers like me know this concept well. You see, we prefer defeat. Why? Because there is no more exciting and life-giving feeling than the feeling of finding your whole life in front of you, completely empty and eager to be written by someone next to you. i think that feeling is understood as ‘complete freedom’. I also believe that it is not a concept that most people can honestly say they need owners.

Can you?

Don't get me wrong; I am not saying that freedom can be a black and white body. the foundation of freedom is truly selective and sadly the planet is too cruel to allow everyone to change the state of their own free will. The end of the present system of things is marked by poverty, hunger, sex, slavery, and the many other evils that billions of people have committed since the beginning of human history. The sad reason is that members of elite communities do not want to relinquish control, transfer power and provide love for others, right? However, while not all people are born with endless human rights, are we not all born into a society that rules us to some degree? I mean, no one is given a blank page inside the delivery room. several of us got rubber. Freedom is therefore an all-encompassing concept and if we are completely free, we are the center of the solution that we would like to go along with.

I am twenty-four years old, and until I start walking, I can honestly say that I feel comfortable. Personally, as I used to be very young I have come to see all the kind of ‘social control’ that has dominated and influenced the course of my life and my actions within it. The sad thoughts that my life was not mine stayed with me so the feeling of insecurity and insecurity grew stronger with each passing year. So, I wish I could always understand what true freedom means and that I knew it wasn't mine, so my main purpose in life was to see it. Like Truman on The Truman Show, I felt like I needed to steer the ship, ride the storm to the top of the earth and move the control that was woven inside me, just as it is to you.

So, when I turned 18 and completed my compulsory education, I was moved to make decisions that I had never made before. After imagining the book of my life that I had hated for so long, it suddenly dawned on me that everything had always been wrongly answered inside and outside of all the decisions I had been given, now there was a choice written down. So I took out an old battering ram and chewed on a pencil case that I had been carrying from class to class for a few years so I put everything in my notebook with wide eyes and a hammer used in my heart. Then I took out my pen, left with only the ink and wrote the following:

"I prefer a less expensive route, thank you."

And I felt enlightened.

If I had chosen to follow the course of my book, I would have gone to college, studied hard in the field of education, and found a reliable job with high hopes and high pay. I may be moderately successful. My parents would be happy for me. However, I could not restrain myself knowing full well that I would find myself without ownership. I could work to make a living, go with my friends on the weekends, buy good cushions for my beautiful sofa in my beautiful house and have enough to pay my bills for over a month that I have accumulated without realizing it - mortgage, electricity, car payments, insurance at that time. many of us in our society would argue that these crimes are inevitable, they are just part of growing up, the reality of life. I think it involves a certain level in everyone's life when they have the power to say 'yes' or 'no' to those things. Who forced you to go to university? Who forced you to apply for a standard 9-5 ‘adult’ job with a modest income? Who forced you to apply for a loan to buy new furniture? there is none. However, it is possible that anyone can find out that this is often the way the 'adult' life should be without the community telling you that this gratitude should be done. that's exactly what the community told me I tried to do. I used to get lost and that I wanted a purposeful and happy life, so the way I traveled the most was my choice.

So where did my new path take me? It took me to break free. I found a way to make money while I was away. There are some ways to try this, other than what I originally thought. I got a job working on a luxury ship, so instead of spending two and a half years fighting for my job and putting money in my pocket for things I didn't need (or really need to think about), I went to explore all corners of the globe. Honestly, I have lost even more times than being able to count both hands on this point, but this point I have found even more joy and wonder in the world than I thought possible. this is usually given complete freedom.

I tell you all this because I would like to urge you to try the equivalent. it is a bad idea there are some people who live their whole lives without realizing that they need to choose how they will live their lives; many will see that they need to make a choice but are proud of the comfort you get within the set way - et al.