Get the Hell Out of Bed and Start Now!

Hey!

What the hell are you doing? Are you in bed right now? Are you still in your Pj's? Are you in depressed mode and don't feel like doing nothing? What the hell man? I shouldn't be asking you these questions! you know what I should be asking you is, Why the hell are you not ready? Ya ya, its the middle of a pandemic, ofc you need to stay inside and stay safe but what I am trying to tell you is why are you not taking those bomb ass pictures while still following the Covid-19 guidelines. Even in your bedroom you can still be a bad bitch. Why the hell are you not driving around blasting music by yourself? Who told you that you need friends? forget their fake asses!

Go OUT! Get the hell out of that bed, get the hell out of that room, turn off your phone (maybe only use it if you take pictures on there) but if you have a camera turn off your phone, blast the radio, go old school! Do it in the moment whatever you feel like doing! Go to the beach and don't forget your mask and sun screen! Buy yourself Chick-Fil-A, McDonalds, Taco bell, Chips, Gummy's, etc. Treat YOURSELF! because let me tell you... At the end of the day you only got yourself, no one is going to be there for you and let me tell you that it is ok because at least you make yourself happy, you trust yourself, you were by yourself in your mom's wound so why tf not. Go out by yourself and just breath for a moment, you need it! You go in your car and when you are driving you scream "I Don't fucken need you!" Go start your own business by yourself, be your own boss, go be that influencer and make your little self proud.

Don't loose yourself over the voices that are in your head and over the trauma because you just need to turn your music out so loud and you need to dance it off. Then say "I got myself and I am going to do and be *Whatever you want to be or do*" I have been there, and trust me when I am in the moment of wanting to do something so crazy I need to do it because if not later I get "too shy" or I chicken out then I regret not doing it. Stay with me when I tell you make mistakes, because at the end of the day nobody cared about you nobody ever asked you if you were ok or if you needed something when you needed someone. Don't change because someone told you too. Because I love your social anxiety, I love your depression, I love your anxiety, I love your tics, I love your insecurities, I love everything about you that makes you... YOU! If someone ever took those away from you, they took what made you special. People try to take those things away from you by "letting yourself go" "Asking that guy/girl out" NOOOOOOO you don't need to ask that guy/girl out because if he/she/they/them/etc. loves you they will go to you!

If you need advice on something DM me on instagram: @fernanda180._

if you need someone to talk to, to encourage you, to motivate you, to tell something to someone, to tell you something, just DM me! I have been through it all and I just know what to say to someone when they need comfort. When I tell you I am here to help, I am here to help! no joke!

Take a breath... Breath in and breath out slowly. Tell your depression, tell your anxiety, etc. that you are in control that they do not control you. You can not take away anxiety or depression or anything you were diagnosed with but you can slow it down, you can take control over it sometimes. But the first step is to remember to breath! I know its hard it took me forever to finally take control but breathing is a good start!

But hey, stick with me... Go make that mistake, go out but also stay safe, go sing your heart off until the next morning you can't talk anymore, go dance until your feet fall off, go try something you never tried before and you have always wanted to try, start saving up for that big trip by yourself, Go work hard to reach your goal, go workout to get your summer body, whatever you want to do in the moment DO IT! Don't let anything get in the way just remember you have the control, you only know how far to go. Just DO NOT give up because once you give up you are back to square one.

Go make some memories, trust me when you are older you will regret not wanting to do the things you always wanted to do. And before you say something about parents go tell them your going out to find a Job or your going out to study something for class or make a powerpoint sit them down and tell them all the good reasons in what you want to do is for the good (also add some bad things that could happen but convince them that you won't do it!)

But just do you, like they always say, just do you! This is your life, this is when and today you start taking control. Start building yourself up I trust in you!

Now go on I don't want to keep you waiting, I don't want to to keep you from your Journey. Go and start taking on the world. One person can make a huge difference on one's life. I hope I helped you. Make sure to keep reading my stories they will always be up on my Tik Tok's bio @fruby15. Help me by giving me a tip to make sure that you are ready to take on the world! I would very much appreciate it. Thank you for your time. Bye.

Some Motivational quotes that are my favorite to help you keep moving all Unknown:

- If the plan doesn't work, change the plan never the goal

- Don't wish for it, work for it

- Never let your fear decide your faith

- Don't look back, you'r not going that way

- If it doesn't challenge you, It won't change you

- Make yourself a priority

- As long as your breathing, its not too late to change your story

- Create a life you cannot wait to wake up to

- Don't ignore your own potential

- Growth is Growth no matter how small

- This week is yours. Own it.

- The only way you will see results is if you stay consistent

- Be silly, Be fun, Be crazy, Be you, because life is too short to be anything but happy.

- If your tired, do it tired

- If speaking kindly to plants helps them grow imagine what speaking kindly to humans can do.

- Two things you are in total control of in your life is your attitude and your effort.

- Make it happen girl. Shock everyone.

- Repeat after me "I can do it"

- If you want to see them burn, first you gotta show them who's boss

- When you get tired learn how to rest not to quit

- Your life isn't yours if you always care what someone else thinks

- My mother taught me life lessons now its my turn to go show her what I've learned

- People disappoint everyday so thats why God gave me my own life and they have theirs.