Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened

Everything in life, including life itself, must come to an end when we die, and our time on this planet is limited. Instead of being overwhelmed with sorrow and regret when something comes to an end, we should be filled with gratitude that we were able to participate in it in the first place. Depending on how things ended, we may either look back with a feeling of loss because it is no longer there, or we can look back with a grin because we were able to enjoy ourselves while it was happening. Relationships often come to an end when two individuals grow apart as they get older and no longer have the same shared objectives and interests. When a relationship comes to an end, the time spent together and the pleasant experiences that were experienced as a pair are not erased from memory.

People weep for a variety of reasons, the most frequent of which being sadness. Something has occurred that has had a significant effect on them. Sadness is often brought on by grief. Typically, we only think about sorrow when someone close to us passes away. Grief may be triggered by any kind of loss.

In contrast to many movies, it is doubtful that a rookie fighter would be granted a chance to compete for the championship in any weight class. A novice boxer must prove himself (or herself) against a growing number of increasingly difficult opponents. A fighter will never reach the pinnacle of his or her profession unless he or she learns from and fights against stronger and more competent opponents. That is the perspective from which we should approach the most difficult periods of our lives. We have evolved in our ability to take on more difficult tasks in the future.

Perhaps this explains why movies have evolved significantly over the last few years, with antagonists becoming harder and harsher as time goes on. We find it difficult to progress in any activity if we are not always being pushed by people with greater abilities. The same holds true whether we're teaching ourselves to play chess or attempting to take over the planet. It is very necessary for us to surround ourselves with individuals who are better than ourselves in order to progress.

When something good comes to an end, it is essential to have a positive attitude and consider how your life has been enhanced as a result of the experience in the first place. A combination of positive and negative events throughout your life helps you to create the person that you are now. Even a conclusion may be a happy occasion since every conclusion represents a new beginning, presenting fresh chances and possibilities that might otherwise have been missed. Life is a journey that continues to go ahead at a constant pace. If you continue to live in the past or feel regret because something has come to an end, you will only hinder your progress and prevent you from achieving the pleasure you deserve. Recognize and express gratitude for the connection or event, even if it did not end out the way you had hoped, since you gained valuable knowledge as a consequence of the interaction or experience.

Change may cause us to want to weep, and we must allow the tears to flow and heal us, as well as push us to embrace the changes that have occurred. We must give sorrow time to make its way through the system. Finishing the process, however, by considering all aspects of life and the lessons that we may take away from them is very effective. One last thought: when we face difficult circumstances, we have the option of either learning from them or being destroyed by them. It is entirely up to you to make your decision.