Motivation logo

Conquering Fear: My Path to Pushing Past Limitations and Achieving New Height

Conquering Fear: My Path to Pushing Past Limitations and Achieving New Height

By Umut ÇalışkanPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

Facing our fears is a common experience for many people, and it can be a difficult journey. In my own life, I have struggled with fear for a long time, especially the fear of heights. But through facing my fears and taking the first step, I have learned how to overcome these fears and achieve my goals.

For a long time, I allowed my fear of heights to hold me back from pursuing certain activities. I was afraid of going on roller coasters, climbing ladders or even walking across a bridge. I thought that if I was in a high place, I would lose control and fall to my death.

Growing up, my family loved to go on road trips and visit new places. I remember visiting the Grand Canyon when I was younger and feeling completely overwhelmed by the vastness of the canyon. As we approached the railing to look over the edge, my legs turned to jelly and I couldn't move. I was too scared to even look down.

That fear followed me throughout my life. Whenever I had to climb a ladder or go on a roller coaster, I would break out in a cold sweat and my heart would race. It wasn't until I started college that I realized that my fear of heights was holding me back from experiencing the world and achieving my goals.

I was studying to become a geologist, which involved a lot of fieldwork and hiking in mountainous areas. It was during one of these field trips that I realized how much my fear was limiting me. We had to climb a steep hill to collect samples, and I froze halfway up. My professor noticed and came over to talk to me.

He asked me what was wrong and I admitted that I was afraid of falling. He listened patiently and then said something that has stuck with me ever since. He said, "Fear is just a feeling. It's not real. You have to learn to trust yourself and your abilities, and take that first step."

Those words were a turning point for me. I realized that my fear was not real, it was just a feeling. I decided to start small and confront my fear of heights by standing on a chair. It was scary, but I reminded myself that I was safe and in control.

From there, I gradually worked my way up to higher places like a rooftop or a balcony. It was terrifying to be up high and look down, but I kept reminding myself that I was in control and that I was safe. I started to become more confident in my ability to handle being up high and realized that my fear was irrational.

As I continued to practice and push myself out of my comfort zone, I started to improve. I went on a roller coaster for the first time and loved it. I went on a hiking trip and climbed a mountain, enjoying the breathtaking views. Encouraged by this success, I decided to tackle my fear of heights in other areas of my life.

I took a zip lining tour, which was scary but exhilarating. I went bungee jumping, which was terrifying but one of the most thrilling experiences of my life. Through each of these experiences, I learned that taking the first step is often the hardest part. It can be scary to step outside of our comfort zones and face our fears, but it's also incredibly rewarding.

Of course, there were times when I failed. I didn't always enjoy the experience or the fear was too overwhelming. But through these failures, I learned valuable lessons that helped me to grow and improve. I realized that fear was not something to be ashamed of, but rather a challenge to be overcome.

I continued to face my fears head-on, and I became more resilient and confident as a result. My fear of heights no longer held me back from enjoying

adviceself helpsuccess

About the Creator

Umut Çalışkan

Motivation stories sometimes tech related stuff

Reader insights

Be the first to share your insights about this piece.

How does it work?

Add your insights

Comments

There are no comments for this story

Be the first to respond and start the conversation.

Sign in to comment

    Find us on social media

    Miscellaneous links

    • Explore
    • Contact
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms of Use
    • Support

    © 2026 Creatd, Inc. All Rights Reserved.