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Coming Out: The experience of coming out to friends, family, and society

The emotions involved in the process of coming out your true self such as fear, anxiety, relief, acceptance, or rejection.

By Geraldine G. MonterolaPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
Anyone from LGBT Community deserves acceptance and flowers of love!

Once upon a time, in a small town nestled amidst rolling hills, there lived a young woman named Abigail. Abigail had a secret, one that weighed heavily on her heart and consumed her thoughts every waking moment of her life. She was gay. She had known this about herself for years, but the fear of coming out to her friends, family, and society kept her locked in a prison of secrecy and isolation.

Abigail had always been a kind and compassionate soul, loved by all who knew her. But the fear of rejection and judgment held her back from living her truth. Each passing day, the weight of her hidden identity grew heavier, and the emotional toll became harder and unbearable.

One evening, as the sun painted the sky in shades of fiery orange, Abigail sat in her room, surrounded by letters she had written but never had the courage to send. Her heart pounded in her chest, and tears streamed down her face as she realized she couldn't continue living a lie in this world. With trembling hands, she gathered her strength and made a decision: it was time to come out and give herself the true relief she deserved.

The next day, Abigail invited her closest friend, Sarah, to meet her at their favorite park. As they sat on a bench beneath a blossoming cherry tree, Abigail's heart raced, anxiety coursing through her veins. She took a deep breath and found the courage to say the words that had been locked away for far too long.

"Sarah, there's something I need to tell you," Abigail began, her voice quivering. "I'm gay."

Sarah's eyes widened, a mix of surprise and concern crossing her face. Abigail's heart sank, fearing the worst. But then, as if a weight had been lifted, Sarah embraced Abigail tightly.

"Thank you for trusting me with this, Abigail," Sarah whispered, tears of empathy glistening in her eyes. "You are still the same person I've always loved and admired. Nothing changes that."

Overwhelmed with relief, Abigail wept in Sarah's arms, feeling a newfound sense of acceptance and understanding. Her fears had been shattered, and a glimmer of hope emerged.

Weeks turned into months, and Abigail's anxiety grew as they contemplated coming out to their family and facing the judgments of society. Sarah stood by her side, offering a listening ear, a shoulder to lean on, and unwavering support.

Buoyed by her friend's support, Abigail decided it was time to face her family. Gathering her parents and siblings in the living room, she steeled herself for what lay ahead. With a voice filled with both fear and determination, Abigail confessed her truth to them, the words tumbling out like fragile glass shattered against the floor.

Silence engulfed the room, each family member processing Abigail's revelation in their own way. Time stretched into eternity as Abigail held her breath, bracing for the impact of their response. Then, her father rose from his chair and walked over to her, tears streaming down his face.

"Abigail dear, I may not fully understand, but I love you, and that will never change," he whispered, his voice trembling with emotion. One by one, her family members embraced her, their love and acceptance filling the room. The true family support emerged and not a bit of rejection surfaced.

Abigail's coming out journey wasn't without its challenges. Some friendships faded, and society could be cruel and unaccepting. But within her newfound support network, Abigail discovered a strength she never knew she possessed. Her courage inspired others, and slowly, the walls of prejudice and ignorance began to crumble.

Through the tears, the fear, the relief, and the acceptance, Abigail's story became one of hope and resilience. She showed that love and understanding could conquer fear and prejudice, transforming hearts and minds one person at a time. Through Sara's unwavering support and her family's acceptance, they found the strength to face the daunting challenge of societal judgments.

Abigail's coming out journey became a beacon of light for others who yearned to be free, a testament to the power of love, acceptance, and the strength found within the human spirit.

But even with friends' encouragement and family's support, the society's reactions were mixed—some struggled with acceptance, clinging to societal norms and biases. Some acquaintances' weight of disapproval felt heavy on Abigail's shoulders, but she is determined to live within her means leaving them feeling isolated and vulnerable.

But Sarah's love and her other friends' support became a refuge in the face of public's mixed reactions. Abigail was reminded that her worth was not determined by society's judgment, but by her own strength and resilience.

As time went on, Abigail's confidence grew. Her family became her fiercest advocate, challenging the prejudices of society with unwavering determination. Together , they embarked on a journey of activism, advocating for acceptance, love, and equal rights.

With Abigail's stand on her identity, the community began to feel respect and now question their preconceived notions, breaking down the walls of ignorance and discrimination.

Through her experiences, Abigail inspired a change in the hearts of others. She showed that love, acceptance, and support could triumph over fear, anxiety, and rejection. Her story became a beacon of hope, lighting the way for others who were fearful of living their truth.

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About the Creator

Geraldine G. Monterola

"Juggling the art of motherhood and career with style and grace, embracing the challenges and triumphs with a cool and determined spirit."

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