7 things that make someone dusty

These days more men and women are allowing themselves to become dusty. Here I'm going to give you my 7 traits that make someone dusty to help someone out there get out of a funk and get back to being the best version of themselves possible. Never let yourself go! That is basically the overall message of this topic, Enjoy!

1) Lazy, has nothing going for themselves

Such a turn off! Nothing worse than dealing with someone who has no goals or ambition. Stop looking for others to do things for you and get off your ass and make something happen! It always pays off and you wont be feeling like a failure in life. Nobody wants to be with another grown adult that they have to take care of.

2) Has several kids but are struggling

If a person has several kids by different people that shows a lot about what they are all about. That is a red flag and your first question should be, is this person considering me as their next victim? Don't rush your life, enjoy each moment. Being a parent is amazing, but don't allow it to take over your whole life. Focus on being the best you and the right person will come along that is best for you and your circumstances.

3) Always depending on a man or woman

If you are a fully functioning adult and don't know how to survive on your own you are dusty! It's no ones job to take care of you. If you cat take care of yourself what makes you think another person wants too, unless they are desperate. If anything, it's a sign that you are broke and have nothing to offer. Needing help occasionally is one thing, depending on someone constantly for everything is another red flag no one should ignore.

4) Poor hygiene

One way to tell if someone is dusty is by their appearance and hygienic regimen. You have to take care of yourself in order to keep attracting the opposite sex. Never let yourself go! You will feel good about yourself and will also help yourself by attracting better opportunities. A shower, decent clothes and shoes, and a clean cut aesthetic can go a long way. It shows you have high self esteem and actually care about yourself.

5) Raggedy conversation

If you have nothing interesting to talk about people can get bored of you easily. Some people like to talk a lot, some don't, but either way make sure you are always speaking positively and that you are interacting and actively listening to what the other person has to say. When you are first getting to know someone the conversation is what gets them hooked so always try to find ways to improve your communication and listening skills.

6) Always about drama

People who love drama are toxic! Mental health is more important now more than ever so anything that can create drama must be avoided at all costs. The reason it makes a person dusty is because if you are constantly in drama, you can't really focus on improving yourself, and it raises suspicion that you may be the problem which can cause you to burn bridges with others. Create peace of mind for yourself, by removing negative vibes and replacing those vibes with good energy.

7) A negative attitude

Having a negative attitude includes complaining, loving to argue, and playing victim nonstop. How you react when not getting your way in life can really determine your attitude. Always try to stay calm and not let other people bring you down. Women and Men both love mature people, and people who can face adversity and remain optimistic. It also makes those people more attractive. We all get upset sometimes, but how you handle stress is key to what makes you a stronger person.

That's all for now, don't be dusty! You will soon see and feel the difference in your life the moment you decide to take action!

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XOXO- Beautiful Mystery