How to have the biggest comeback

Change is a very important thing if you are just starting out your journey to success.You see ‘change’ means differentiating your present form with a better form to better adapt to the hard environment of Successful LIFE.Now you may ask how to adapt growth,But first we need to know some underlying things that might cause you not change.I will give you the ideas in a story type form so that you might be better avoid mistake and good and making the most out of this chapter.

Scenario 1: Types of people who don’t want Change

“I asked jessica if she’s gonna actually notice me and talk to me.I at last cannot but shouted at her and said,”Are you gonna listen to me”.Jessica with an annoyed look said,”What??Don’t you see I just made a video and published it on TIKTOK,INSTAGRAM,FACEBOOK AND X.Now,I need to reply my fans”.I asked her,”Do you actually think they care about you.No one cares.You are just wasting your own time”.She became furious and barked at me.I couldn’t but go away.This 12 year old girl is obsessed in social media and acceptance of her beauty”.

You see there is a difference in 99% and living in 1 %.Now,Why do you think that a vast amount of people don’t want change and want to stay unchanged is because there is some underlying concept for which we don’t want change.When the social media was first invented in 1997 which was named as the first true

social media called SixDegrees.com ,Vast number of people started to use it.We humans needed to contact with each other every possible time in our early age.SO,when there was no social media and it was 17’s,18’s,19’s,we needed to communicate with letters,mails.But when Social media was first introduced,People used it first only for it’s attraction but when we saw someone using something new,Our brain thought maybe it is also something that affects our survival but use it.When we became available to chit chat with everyone every possible time in any place,anywhere and without much friction,We became obsessed with it.This caused most of us waste our valuable time talking,talking,talking…..

Some are so obsessed that they don’t want to stay without their phoneThe people who have very little willpower are likely to see their phone thousands of times a day.So,If i ask jessica (An imaginary character) to not watch phone,Her brain would become furious that i am interrupting it’s survival process.

We became addicted.We watch shorts and reels all the time.We don’t want anything else.But as you have picked up the book,I guess you want to stay free from being unchanged.But before that let’s see ONE more point: Why change is necessary.

Scenario 2: I don’t want to live like that !

“I went into the room of Jim.A 11 year old boy currently living with a drug addicted father and with no motherHe had been struggling to hide money from his father that he gets from his grandpa.When I entered his room,I expected unorganized and bad smelled bed room but when i entered i realized it was better than jessica’s room which was a pile of clothes here and there.When i asked him what he wants to be,He replied,”I have lack of money problem.I want to be rich”.I realized that THOSE WHO STRUGGLE HARD FOR SOMETHING THAT OTHERS GET EASILY FROM OTHERS ARE LIKELY 30X

TIMES MORE BETTER AND SUCCESSFUL THAN THE ‘others’”.

This boy jim adapted his hard life with a more hard life by wishing something not everyone can wish and don’t even want to wish.He changed his current form of struggling for money to dancing with money just by CHANGING himself and adapting.

This kid if not tried to change was likely to be also addicted to drug and social media.Network tools made jessica stay in jail while jim to work hard now,not take short-gratification but long-term gratification.He lives his live but jessica lives for others.That’s the difference.Now let’s get to know the ways and means for Adapting change in yourself.

LAWS OF CHANGE:

To better adapt to change you need to realize that we humans are quite great at it.But today’s tools are making our Unique skill go thin and thin.But how to change.Let’s see:

1.Changing environment:

Change stuff in your environment.We get a self-boost when we clean our room but why?Because it makes our brain think why just moved to a new tribe or place now and by giving us a tremendous boost it tells us to work hard to stay in the tribe or place for a long time.Buy a new cloth,wear it and make changes in your environment and sleep thinking you moved to a new world now

2.Applying THE LAWS OF SUCCESS

In the following sections,I will tell you about what the 27 laws that can bring success and success comes to those who change their present form into a valuable form.

3.Changing contact

If you stay with addicts,you will be also an addict one day.So,Change your environment as well as contact.Remember,don’t feel ashamed for removing a friend.It’s your own benefit

4.Changing beliefs

Most people set different beliefs that harm them though they don’t realize it.If you want to be successful and live a successful life,You better go and start to set new beliefs about yourself.