Your Man Is Your Mirror, He Came Into Your Life for a Reason

If you understand the meaning of a man in your life, it will be easier for you to feel that you love him, because you will understand that he is a teacher and you will be grateful for that.

It is not for nothing that this man has entered your life! Along with men, the most difficult lessons come into our lives, and one of the most important is love and self-acceptance.

We can give love to one another only when we carry it in our souls. We can't give a man what we don't have. Your husband is your mirror, remember that! It only reflects what is in you. Can you hear me What does a worthy man mean?

Any man who is attracted to you is a man who deserves you. This concept is very relative because everyone has a point of view about the things they deserve. If only pampered men approach you, it is neither good nor bad, it is just a fact.

The man who appears in your life reflects all your inner problems. This way you can use this knowledge to look at yourself from a different perspective.

Let's look at this situation.

If a jealous man appears in your life, you must learn to redirect your sexual energy to creativity, because a jealous man does not appear in the life of a woman who has overcome the problem of her sexuality.

What lesson does the man who raises his hand to a woman bring with him?

If a tyrant appears in your life, then it is time to listen, because the women who live with such men are the ones who do not understand what the limit means and turn into victims. They feel unhappy, lonely, and abandoned by everyone. "My husband is a tyrant, time is bad and others have only joys in life, but I am the one abandoned, it seems that my fate is like that, to endure and suffer."

Consequently, such a man either "develops a woman" through their behavior, or teaches her to respect herself, to rebuild her personality, to focus on the role of "victim", learns to set limits, and fights for herself. The victim has to endure immense pain to finally want a change in her life.

If an alcoholic appears in your life - he was simply not attracted to your life. And you didn't choose him in vain. But to learn some important lessons. What will such a man teach you? First of all, it will teach you to appreciate your femininity. Because just as alcohol destroyed him, so does his femininity. Or it will teach you to love yourself, to respect yourself, to be able to take responsibility for everything that happens in your life.

If a soft, weak-willed man appears in your life - you are one of those women who are not able to rise into the hands of the stronger sex. You are the one who decides everything, you know better what you need. You won't notice, but most quarrels are because you want to change a person, even though you never listen to him. And yes, now you will deny everything.

If a man has appeared in your life who feeds you on promises, but always has fun with friends and goes to the best parties in town; she speaks beautifully, then you are in love with her lifestyle, with the way she lives her life. Such a man has appeared in your life to tell you, "Start appreciating yourself!"

Going back to what I said at the beginning. You don't have to try for someone's or someone's sake, because your development is at stake.

If there is a man in your life, ask yourself honestly, do I deserve anything better? And for what qualities would I deserve a prince to appear in my life? You alone understand that that prince will not be with a woman full of complexes, rages, and fears. You need to work to improve the situation. People do not learn to drive a Ferrari.

There is such a version as the "dark side of the personality" - these are the qualities that we do not realize, do not see, do not accept that they are, because our minds are shaded. This way everything works according to the principle of the mirror.

Everything around us is our reflection. With the help of other people, you can easily see what is inside you. If you are not completely satisfied with certain circumstances, it means that you are unhappy with yourself. The relationship with you reflects the relationship with other people. And people, in turn, reflect our opinion of ourselves.

What is inside is also outside. Our inner world attracts other people's inner worlds. For this reason, if everything around you is bad, sad, and depressing, the same thing happens inside you. And if you are surrounded by bright, gentle, loving people, then your interior is the same. Work on yourself - the world around you and the people around you will change.