Writing for friends who have been in love one two times

Waking up together on the hills, holding hands in the windy afternoon. Everyone admires such romantic couples. But who knows that to have those moments, couples sometimes have to overcome many obstacles in suffering and waiting to be together.

Life witnesses many couples having to wait 5-10 years for each other to be able to hug each other tightly on a motorbike through mountain passes, or hold hands while walking to the morning sea market. There are things that seem very simple to many people, but for some people they have to overcome countless difficulties. Love is always colorful. I think in this era, love doesn't need to wait, doesn't need to be hidden. But no, at all times, true love must go through many harsher challenges if it wants to be happy.

What is true love, why does true love face many difficulties, but most of them will help us live better.

True love often comes from real emotions, from eyes and smiles that make people pay attention to each other. From attention to exchange, understanding, sympathy. Then gradually understand thoughts, opinions, and ways of life. Only with understanding can we support, support, wholeheartedly help each other in difficult times, and be willing to sacrifice for each other unconditionally. True love often establishes ambitions together and has the same life purpose. And those who truly love each other always want to go through each obstacle of that journey together for the rest of their lives.

True love often develops "slower". Appreciate and cherish every moment, every look, every emotional "touch". The busier life gets, the more precious these rare moments become. It is like spiritual Vitamin pills, helping us live in a positive way. However, because the reaction of true love often comes from real emotions, it can easily lead to conflicts and anger. While fake love often uses reason to control behavior, thereby controlling love so that it becomes happy on the outside, but fake on the inside. When people are intentionally lying, they will often hide their anger better, so there is nothing to be angry about. Anger is always an indispensable spice of true love.

True love often has the goal of marriage, so it always contains anxiety, sadness, and anxiety, so the person involved always feels tired and stressed. Sometimes when they encounter obstacles that are too much to bear, they often find ways to free each other with eternal regret. While in fake love there is nothing to suffer from, nothing to escape from, so it often achieves the goal of marriage more effectively than that. Most first loves are true love, but only about 10% make it to marriage. In later life, we may have many love affairs, but among them, true love is no longer there. We will become more adept at “taking over a person.” So, if at some point you have true love, cherish it and try your best to keep it. Don't leave regrets for the future.

The problem of life today is that more and more marriages do not come from true love. There are many reasons for this: old age, too tiring of searching, just settling for someone; plotting for personal gain, using marriage as an exchange for fame and money; and it can be as simple as finding a place of refuge where you feel safe after many times of pain.

It will be even more painful for someone to find their true love after being married. At that time, social pressure and the torment of responsibility can discourage many people from revealing their true feelings. But the nature of repression is to accumulate energy like a spring, releasing it at any time without knowing it in advance. Depends on each person's fate. But perhaps society should have a little sympathy for people who find true love at this late age.

Whatever, know that nothing can be obtained easily, but having true love is still better for this life. Because true love helps motivate us to study and work better, to make more efforts, to achieve better achievements. Don't find it difficult to be afraid, this life must be full of sweet, fleshy, bitter, and spicy to be a complete life.