Why Today's Relationships have Ionic Bonds?

For years, psychologists have been doing their best to unpack the mysteries of love and romance, and to understand how relationships work. There have been countless of studies, surveys, and theories all dedicated to enlightening us on the matter, but in spite of their best efforts, it seems that most people are still dealing har to the matters of heart.

Signs your relationship has a ionic bond

You Fight Frequently

Every couple has disagreements, but it’s how you handle them that determines if you’re a couple strong or a weak one. If you’re not able to resolve your issues you are surely reaching to toxic bond.

You are creating Separate Lives

Privacy is important. But getting too far is just making you feel like losing the person. It's OK to meet too frequently just to ensure your importance to him.

Your goals are changing

If you have common relationship goals like a family, helping each other advance in your careers, or traveling the world together. If you both want totally different things out of life, your relationship probably won’t last.

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You won't respect each other

Knowing each other for such a long time you are now ignoring, fighting or hating the presence. You could be moving to the weak bond that can be easily broken with a small argument.

You are not able hold the imperfections

Imperfection is not a hand tool. people are different and you have to accept it.

You have lost Trust

If you don’t trust the person, you’ll end up suffocating your partner and pushing the person away. Trust is absolutely critical for a good relationship.

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You’re Not Ready Yet

All too often do our relationships fail because we’re simply not ready to be in one yet. Maybe you want to keep things casual and fun, and you’re not willing to commit.

You Don’t Want Commitment

Another important reason why modern relationships have become so weak is because people often confuse love with other feelings. Maybe you don’t actually want love, but you want excitement or companionship. Maybe you just want someone to show you a good time, or someone to talk to regularly so you don’t feel lonely.

You Want Something Immediate

For a relationship to become mature, healthy, and strong, it needs time to blossom and room to grow. The problem is, most people nowadays simply don’t have the patience for it. Most of us are guilty of wanting something but not willing to work for it.

You’re Too Guarded

Do you let your head rule your heart most of the time? Do you talk yourself out of the things that you want and let your fear keep you from being happy? Maybe you do, and you just don’t know it yet.

Poor Communication

“Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning, without it, your relationship goes cold.” – William Paisley

You Don’t Want to Make the Effort

So many people seem to have this misguided belief that everything they want in a relationship will just magically present itself to them, neatly tied in a bow. But the truth is, these fantasies and ideals can be harmful to us and make us ungrateful of what we already have.

There are a number of reasons why modern-day relationships may be struggling to survive, but these are just a few of the most likely ones. Too often do we forget to make time for love in our lives. We treat relationships as nothing more than a casual convenience, because we want immediate gratification and we’d rather be open to having as many different options as possible.