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What is the Best Way to Deal with Sadness? 5 Tips from an Expert

It's okay to be sad sometimes, and there are ways to handle it that don't involve distracting yourself.

By Courtanae HeslopPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

Sadness is a universal feeling. We all know what it's like to be sad, and we also know that sadness can be harmful if left unchecked. We've all seen people on the internet who've said things like "I'm so sad," or "I don't want to be sad anymore," but how do you really deal with sadness? In this post, I'll tell you everything I've learned about dealing with your own emotions and helping others through theirs - and then give some tips on how you can start doing those things yourself!

Feel your sadness.

Sadness is a normal response to negative events. It's okay to feel sad sometimes - it doesn't mean you're weak or that your life is going bad. It just means you've experienced something negative, and now it's time for the brain to process that information.

Sadness helps us learn from our mistakes and makes us better people in general because we realize how important these experiences are for our lives as whole people with long-term consequences on everything from relationships (and therefore love) to career success (and therefore money).

Help someone else who is sad.

If you are in a position to help someone who is sad, do it. It may be easy to feel like you don't know what they need and that your advice will only make things worse, but the person may feel better if they know that someone cares.

Give them a hug or simply listen as they talk about their sadness - it could even be enough for them! Letting someone know that you're there for them and listening without giving advice can go a long way towards making sure the other person feels less alone during this difficult time.

Imagine your future self looking back at you from the future.

Imagine your future self looking back at you from the future. What will they think about how you're dealing with this? Will they be proud of how well you handled yourself in that moment? Or maybe not so much, because there are still some things that need to happen before it all works out (like moving or getting married).

Your future self is an important person to keep in mind when trying to make decisions about sadness and depression. It can be helpful for them if they know what their own reaction would have been, so consider asking yourself these questions:

  • How do I feel right now? Is my mood low or high? How did I react when someone else was sad recently and did anything similar myself then too? Did my reaction help me cope better than theirs did?

Go for a walk.

  1. Walking is a great way to clear your head. When you're walking, your mind can't be focused on anything else but what's around you and how far away it is from where you are right now. This helps to clear away any thoughts or emotions that might be bothering you and also makes it easier for me to think clearly about my life as well as how I want it to be in the future.
  2. Walking can help reduce anxiety levels and stress levels too! Walking helps us feel more relaxed because when we're outside in nature there aren't any distractions such as cars honking at us or pushy people trying to get our attention (which would happen if we were sitting down at home). These kinds of things tend not only make our heads hurt but also cause us stress which leads back into anxiety again…and so forth until eventually we just give up altogether!

Find a way to connect with people.

When you're feeling down and blue, it can be hard to see the light at the end of your tunnel. But don't despair: There are many ways in which we can all find comfort in the world around us. The most important thing is that you connect with others who have been through similar experiences or who know what it feels like.

When I was sad about losing my job, I found myself making friends with people who were also unemployed at the time - and they helped me get through some tough times! We would talk about our feelings together (or just share memes), laugh together and make each other feel better. By doing this over time, we formed a bond that was stronger than any other friendship could ever be; this means even when things aren't great for either party involved anymore - they'll still be there for each other if needed again someday soon enough."

It's okay to be sad sometimes, and there are ways to handle it that don't involve distracting yourself.

It's okay to be sad sometimes. Sadness is a normal part of life, and there are ways to handle it that don't involve distracting yourself. You can feel your sadness and still do things - you just need some help with the process of figuring out what you want and need in order to feel better.

You can also help someone who is sad by being kind and empathetic, or just listening when they ask for comfort or advice on how best to deal with their situation (and when this feels like too much for one person alone). You might even try imagining yourself looking back at yourself from faraway places in the future - how would YOU feel if THIS was happening RIGHT NOW???

Conclusion

The most important thing to remember is that sadness is okay. It doesn't make you a bad person or weak, and it doesn't mean that your life isn't worth living. In fact, there are many people who struggle with sadness on a daily basis - and if you know someone who does, tell them about these five tips!

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About the Creator

Courtanae Heslop

Courtanae Heslop is a multi-genre writer and business owner.

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