Mark Hipster
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Lifestyle speaker Mark Hipster, 40, based in Saudi Arabia, sharing powerful insights on growth, balance, and modern living to inspire positive change.
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Why Trust Issues Dominate Modern Dating And Emotional Connections
Problems of trust in contemporary dating can hardly occur without purpose. Numerous individuals have emotional scars of their past experiences embedded in the way they relate with other people. Deception, disloyalty, ghosting, and emotional neglect cause an everlasting imprint on the heart. Though individuals desire to believe once again, their brains are not relaxed as they are searching to find evidence of threat. The personal memory of historical pain generates a defense mechanism which can be almost automatic.
By Mark Hipsterabout 8 hours ago in Humans
The Emotional Pain Of Wanting Love But Fearing Heartbreak
Human heart is predisposed to love, relationship and emotional intimacy. When individuals grow up they are taught that love provides them with a feeling of safety, belonging and meaning. But in the case of most adults, this aspiration is mingled with fear. The previous disappointments, betrayal and emotional wounds are not forgotten easily. Even in cases where a person badly desires love, his or her mind can remind him or her that love causes pain. It forms an agonizing inner struggle in which one side of the heart sticks out and the other one draws back. Love starts being soothing and threatening simultaneously. The feelings of tension that develops cause individuals to doubt their impulses and realize that they cannot make safe decisions.
By Mark Hipsterabout 8 hours ago in Humans
