What Are the 3 Most Common Things That Men Hate About Women?

If you are wondering what men don't like about women, here is the answer: the fact that as soon as they get married, they gained 10 kilos! Just a joke! (and like any joke, it has a part of truth in it).

Seriously, in a long-term relationship - but not only that, what men don't like about women is first of all the fact that as soon as they form a more or less stable couple, she starts to control them!

First time more subtly, in the style of "what are you doing today, darling, I was thinking of…", or "and have you ever seen your friend X? Oh, yes, where have you been? "Or" Have you been to the Y bar lately? How is it? " Finally, you understand the idea…

But as she sees these "subtleties" go, she becomes more and more incisive: "what are you doing tonight?", "When do you see X?" Y with you and X? " For the time being, it seems to him somewhat acceptable and reasonable to ask, only she tells him what he is doing, where he is going, and with whom…

But less than two months have passed since the relationship and the plate changes again: from simple questions, one can easily reach real interrogations led as if by the Inquisition.

What men don't like about women: "why do you see X again and not me?", "Why can't I come too, hide something?" that you're home? "," I don't understand why you like that bar, it's filthy, don't you want to go somewhere else? "," we should go out more often with your friends, can't I come too? " who was that girl in the picture? "," how many colleagues do you have at work and what are their names and friends? ".

And so, until he doesn't know what to believe, does she have every right to interrogate him as if he committed a crime or is he taken away with a raft? The answer is no to both: she has no right, but she is not carried away by raft either; he is simply insecure about her and the relationship and sees no other way to convince himself of his seriousness!

By the way, directly related to this, what men don't like about women: the uncertainty continues! "Honey, are you sure you love me?" Didn't you tell me you've been in love with me for two days! "," Darling, are you sure you're not kidding me? " the one with the controlled maniac.

And when you catch her logging into her Messenger account or browsing on her mobile, then she reaches a limit and it just depends on how much compromise power both partners have.

What men don't like about women: the conversation continues. Men understand that women like to talk about anything, anytime and with anyone, but for all, there must be a limit! At first glance, it may seem funny to her how she insists on telling her what her mother is eating and what her grandmother's illness is and what flowers her mother has in the garden.

Men often just need peace of mind, especially when faced with a dilemma. And that's when she wants to say, "Honey, what have you suffered," "Tell me, and it'll be better!" No, it will not be better, a man needs to sit alone for a while and analyze the situation, not to put his girlfriend in his soul. And after a while, when he came to know the taboos of his grandmother, of his cat, of his best friend, her childhood from A to Z, he simply gets tired and can no longer bear such discussions "as between girls"!

And he does what men always do: he pauses and doesn't listen, approving and muttering "hey, yes" from time to time.

A difficult choice now: what do men not like more about women, useless talk or deep talk, "from soul to soul"? The first bore them to death, but the second scares them to death! When she sits next to him and starts a discussion about feelings, emotions, their future as a couple and, God forbid, children, she might as well put spiders on her back, she has the same feeling!

Here, unfortunately, the approving nod and the muttering no longer work, he has to contribute to the discussion and, of course, to say what she would like to hear, otherwise from the discussion "soul to soul" you reach the speed of light to a quarrel-monster!

To change the subject a little, what men don't like about women: falsehood! It is about its falsity in the couple's relationship, but also about its falsity in society. About the first one: on the first dates, she seems so sweet, naive, in love, interested in him and fascinated by all the topics of conversation! He doesn't seem to get tired of hearing what he likes: what movies, what songs, what games, what bars…

And he approves, he finds out that they have the same preferences in many areas! Then, slowly, in a few months, she was shocked to learn that she couldn't stand horror movies, that hip-hop seemed like vulgar nonsense, that games seemed like a waste of time, and that bar X seemed like a bodega in comparison. with the wonderful cafe W! Even worse, suddenly she is no longer so fascinated by his person, the compliments slowly turn into criticism!

If at first, he saw only the good parts, now he seems to see only the bad! Where did the sweet girl he had so much in common disappear with? And why did he feel the need to be so false? To conquer it, logically, and now try to change it!

The second type of falsehood that men don't like about women is the one often displayed in society, during outings; then, although at home he just screamed at him that he burned the pan, he behaves extremely smiling and pleasant with everyone, and extremely affectionate with him!

Well, why, just to be liked by their friends? But what about the desire to be liked by him?

This is the top 3: what men don't like about women!