Ways To Show Appreciation In A Relationship

Before we dive headlong into the ways you can show appreciation to your partner for foster strength in your relationship, let me ask you a simple question, the moment you said, I Do, did those common everyday courtesies you used to freely and willingly offer and receive from your partner cease and desist? Do you now feel like your partner simply just expects you do things for him or (her) and no longer believes you do deserve to be asked please, and when you do it, do they say, thank you?

One of the worst things that can happen to any couple or you can do as a couple is simply forget about showing your partner with adoration, respect and just expect them to do things for you because they should. This is your life partner we’re talking about; don't you think you both actually do deserve to be treated with every bit of respect that even strangers get every day from you? A few years ago I was paying a visit to a female friend when her husband snapped, "Woman, get me a beer!" That simple tone alone shocked me, but what happened next was even more surprising. She jumped up and indeed got it for him.

Now it is imperative to note that In order for you to get respect from your partner you must indeed expect it, and not allow them to treat you this way or maltreat you in anyway, the moment you start acting like a slave you are subconsciously telling them or passing a message across that you are willing to be used as a slave for the rest of the relationship and not to be treated with courtesy, respect and love as well, so before it starts and grows into something bigger, cut and stop it immediately. You don’t have to be rude or hostile to stop it, a simple refusal and communicating how you want to be talked to will do the trick, all he or she needs to know is you are not willing to be maltreated rather you are valuable enough to be treated with respect, especially when you do respect them.

Now, speaking for myself, I personally would definitely have laughed at him for even expecting me to get up and get him a beer when he asked for it in such a manner. I would say boldly after laughing tho, Mr, I don't think so.

Ever heard or come across the word please? Ensure to give your partner respect, and expect it in return just as given.Just How hard can it become to use the same simple courtesy you used before you were married? Is there a taboo against being sweet, nice and appreciative to your spouse? These simple yet wildly overlooked everyday courtesies should always be used when asking for anything from your partner or spouse.

“Please.” Picture this, Just How hard would the situation have been if he had to say, Baby, I am really tired, can you please get me a beer or soda?

“Thank You.”

Once the beer or soda is brought to you, a simple thanks or thank you will let them know you really appreciate them.

And also . . .

Saying “You’re welcome.”

And when your partner does say thank you. It is very simple to say your welcome back. I mean, how extremely hard is it to say, Yet most people choose to go through hell instead of just being simply polite.

Your ‘life's partner’ does deserve to be treated with respect and courtesy. You deserve to be treated with respect just as well. These common and simple courtesy words such as ‘please’ ‘Thank you’ ‘You’re welcome’ just to mention a few never go out of style. Use them every day and you will notice a lasting effect on your relationship because people tend to stick to what works and also to humans tend to steer in the direction to where they are appreciated and respected.

Don't under any circumstance neglect your partner. You must give your partner your time and undivided attention if you expect your relationship or marriage to grow and flourish into something more beautiful daily. This is very important specially for couples who are married as married couples need constant reassurance from each other to keep excitement fresh and passion sizzling. Make an effort and create a space to accommodate and accept your partner’s emotional and physical needs.

Learn to Notice things your partner does for you.

If by chance you have a sweet partner who does have an A for effort in many aspects, even if they don’t but occasionally put in the effort and does something around the house that you would normally have to do then be sure and certain to make a big deal out of it, shower them with praises, give them hugs and marinade them with pecks and kisses and body contact. Say, thank you so much for doing this and that, you have really helped me a lot, I didn’t expect this at all, I really liked what you did, the way you did it and more sweet comments like such. Make sure to make a big deal of it and make them smile for doing it. Tell them you appreciate it so much. And give them a big hug and kiss too.

Learn to Spend quality time together.

Spend quality time talking, going for walks together or start a hobby together as a couple. If you have o share nothing in common, the relationship can in time grow boring and you'll find yourselves shut off in separate rooms all the time to either avoid each other or prevent confrontation from resentment, or you could find yourself doing something you enjoy that they do not and vice-versa. Before you know it, you will be spending no time or no meaningful time at all together.

Foster, grow and Keep these above tips in mind every day when you’re with your partner to show them how much you appreciate them in the relationship, try something fun and new to spice things up. Add creative or simple new ways to your list to show appreciation and care and you will find you can't wait to spend time together and you would not want to spend any time apart.

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It plays a deep role in why some men pull away and others stay committed for life…

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