The Reasons Why Some Men Enjoy the Bachelor Life for a Long Time

Why do some young people - men but also women - prefer not to get seriously involved in a relationship for a while, if the life of a bachelor or, why not, a bachelorette girl would not be pleasant ?!

Of course, some young people have a real phobia of relationships and the inability to get involved, some young people want a relationship more than anything and who are happy to be with someone, but some are in the middle: I admit that a relationship offers a lot, but it prefers to wait for the right moment and the right person!

So why is life like a bachelor or bachelorette, what would be the extra things offered by such a life? So many people, especially during the holidays, would like someone next to them, so when you meet someone who claims to be completely happy without a partner, you can't believe him/her. ! But maybe some people know what I'm talking about, so let's see!

One of the most important aspects of a bachelor's life: you do almost anything you want and whenever you want! Have a crazy night at the club - you don't need anyone's permission! You want to spend a whole day at home, in panties at a movie marathon - no one bothers you! You feel like eating a pie at three in the morning in bed while watching a show - you don't bother anyone!

You feel like reorienting yourself professionally, looking for another job - no one will bother you with the responsibilities you have! And the list goes on! Do you know how some people change after having a relationship for a while? Do you have a friend who used to spend every weekend until the morning, but suddenly says: "I'm not in the mood, plus Vladut would be upset"?

Do you have a friend who used to be the first to attend a poker game, but now says, "Once upon a time, I promised Ancuta I'd take her to the movies" ?! The truth is that a relationship, no matter how beautiful, does not allow you to do the same things as before. And here, the life of a bachelor or bachelorette gives you something else - time: you see your friends whenever you feel like it - there is no one to criticize them, to convince you to do something else, to be jealous of your relationship with your best friends and to keep you away from them.

It's a reality: when you have a stable relationship, whether you like it or not, you realize it or not, you move more or less away from your friends because you spend more time in the couple. Conversely, when you have a relationship, you have to integrate, good or bad, into another group of friends: his / her own!

And even if you can't stand them, even if they have some incomprehensible and horrible group activities for you - for example, they gather in front of a TV watching any possible match or they gather in a club and gossip about everyone at the next table - you as a lover must join them!

What else is pleasurable about a bachelor's life: get rid of the new responsibilities and obligations of a stable relationship! These responsibilities increase as the couple evolves: in the beginning, it is not who knows what obligation, all you have to do is pretend that you like your friends, that you are crazy about your parents and your dog/cat, and not Forget her birthday!

It doesn't seem like a big deal. But as the relationship becomes more serious and you start spending a lot of time with one of you at home or even moving in together, new and new responsibilities arise. You have to clean, you have to prepare the table, you have to take out the garbage, you have to wash the dishes you eat, you have to not sit with your feet on the table, you have to eat at the table and not in front of the TV, you have to share your expenses.

Of course, you have to do these things when you live alone, but you have the invaluable freedom to do them when you feel like it: no one is bothering you! And if you are a woman, you will wake up in the middle of the night with new obligations - housework that your dear boyfriend used to leave to your mother probably!

So you wake up with a job, a social life, and a new role - not at all attractive to a young woman - as a hardworking housewife. Because, being realistic, everyone expects the woman to do most of the housework. But that doesn't mean you're a man. - Leave your plate somewhere, on the floor!

As a counter-argument, those who do not believe in the bachelor or bachelorette life could say that an advantage of married life and therefore implicitly a disadvantage of a single life would be that the partners of a stable couple have a much healthier and quieter life and a much healthier diet - because you give up endless nights of parties and alcohol, fast food meals, other unhealthy habits!

But have you noticed that sometimes those who have a relationship seem to be constantly exhausted - even if they don't go anywhere - and seem to put on ten pounds in a few months? Effect of home life: stay at home, get tired of arguing with your partner, then, instead of a beer, put some steak in you - or both, nerves!

The bachelor or bachelorette life gives you complete freedom to go out with whoever you want and to experiment! You've never had a one-night stand - why not give it a try? You meet an extremely sensual girl - who's stopping you? After all, many people who have stable relationships at a very young age find themselves regretting not having experienced more.

A big mistake is to start a relationship before you consider that at least sexually, you tried almost everything you wanted on your own - sex in public places, one-night stands, strip clubs, threesomes, etc. Because in a relationship, diversity is a bit limited to positions, various games and toys, and locations - but that's it!

Finally, if you have chosen a bachelor life for a while, then it is good that you have time for yourself, for your personal and especially professional development: it is a mistake to get seriously involved in a stable relationship if you still don't know what are you doing with your life because you can miss excellent professional opportunities!

The time devoted to a relationship takes considerably from the time dedicated to career development, so only after you know what path you want to follow and start a career, only then is the right time to start something serious!

But, no matter how many and convincing are the advantages of a bachelor or bachelorette life, without worries, you will still want at some point to share your life with someone, to have someone by your side, but someone who understands you.

All you need to completely forget about these advantages of celibacy is to meet the right person, whom you love: then, obligations, quarrels, compromises will no longer matter. All that matters is love. But until that right person comes, why not enjoy everything you have and your friends "caught" in relationships do not have ?!