humanity
For better or for worse, relationships reveal the core of the human condition.
To the One Who Learned to Receive.
For so long, you’ve been the giver. The nurturer. The sturdy oak offering shade and shelter to all who sought refuge beneath your branches. You poured yourself out, time and time again, into relationships, projects, and causes, often leaving little for yourself. Your hands, calloused from constant effort, have built bridges, mended fences, and offered solace. But somewhere along the way, the well ran dry.
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
To You Who Needed Your Own Support.
We often hear the advice, "Be your own biggest supporter." It’s a sentiment plastered across motivational posters, whispered by self-help gurus, and even offered by well-meaning friends. But what happens when the weight of the world seems to rest solely on your shoulders, when you're the only one capable of understanding the nuances of your struggle, and when that internal well of support feels utterly, devastatingly dry? What happens when you needed your own support, but found yourself coming up short?
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
To the One Who Thought It Was Weak to Rest.
The hum of the air conditioner, a constant drone in the otherwise silent room, was the only sound competing with the relentless thoughts swirling in my head. Deadline looming, inbox overflowing, family needs clamoring for attention – the orchestra of demands played on, conducting a symphony of stress and guilt. And in the midst of it all, a whisper, almost imperceptible, urged me to just…stop. To rest.
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
To You Who Were Afraid to Be Alone: Embracing the Solitude Within
For some, the idea of being alone is synonymous with isolation, loneliness, and even dread. The thought of an empty house, a quiet evening, or a solitary weekend can trigger anxieties that seem impossible to quell. To you, who have always feared the vast, echoing space of being alone, know this: there’s a profound strength waiting to be discovered within that very space. It’s a strength that comes not from running away from yourself, but from turning inwards and learning to embrace the solitude that resides within.
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
To the One Who Was Seen Later: Finding Beauty in the Delayed Bloom.
We live in a world obsessed with instant gratification. Success stories are plastered across social media, showcasing overnight sensations and young prodigies. The pressure to achieve, to excel, and to be “seen” early can be suffocating, leaving many feeling inadequate when their trajectory doesn’t align with the pre-defined narrative of early triumph. But what about those whose potential blossoms later? This is for you, the one who was seen later.
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
To You Who Discovered Your Quiet Strength.
Life often presents us with moments of intense pressure, situations that seem designed to break us. These are the times when we question our capabilities, our worth, and our resilience. But what happens when, in the face of such adversity, you unearth a quiet, unwavering strength you never knew you possessed? This article is for you, the one who has navigated the storm and discovered the unexpected reservoir of power within.
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
To the One Who Feels Unseen: A Light in the Loneliness
Have you ever felt like you're walking through life as a ghost? Present, but not really there. Speaking, but unheard. Existing, but invisible. It's a heavy weight to carry, this feeling of being unseen, a silent ache that resonates deep within the soul. It whispers insidious doubts: "Am I not good enough? Am I not worthy of notice? Does anyone even care?"
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
Love
Love is one of the strongest and most beautiful feelings in the world. It does not need big words or grand actions to be real. Love can be felt in small moments, kind gestures, and honest care. It connects hearts, brings comfort, and gives meaning to our lives.
By shaoor afridi26 days ago in Humans
To the One Who Learned Your Value
Life has a funny way of teaching us lessons, often through the most unexpected and sometimes painful experiences. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve been through one of those lessons – the one where you were forced to confront the reality that someone you cared deeply for, someone you poured your heart and soul into, didn't fully appreciate your worth. To you, the one who learned your value, this is for you.
By Wilson Igbasi26 days ago in Humans
Nothing Happened, and That’s the Problem
Nothing happened that day. At least, nothing that would make a report sound urgent. There was no shouting. No alarms. No visible mistake. The building stayed open. The phones were answered. The process moved forward exactly as designed.
By Megan Stroup26 days ago in Humans
They Called It Procedure
The room went quiet in a way that didn’t feel respectful. It felt practiced. Someone cleared their throat. Someone else folded a piece of paper they hadn’t been reading. A sentence was delivered carefully, like it had been rehearsed in front of a mirror.
By Megan Stroup27 days ago in Humans
How to Win Anyone Without Losing Yourself
Have you ever tried to impress someone and later felt like you weren’t being yourself at all? Whether it’s in friendships, relationships, the workplace, or social situations, many people believe that “winning others” requires changing who they are. The truth is far more empowering: you can win people over without sacrificing your values, personality, or self-respect.
By John Smith27 days ago in Humans
