breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
Love Hurts...
Sometimes the person you love the most turns out to be the person who never loved you enough to deserve you. Faking love hurts more than the bitter truth... There is always this one person who comes in your life to save you from the past even when you promise yourself that you wont let anyone in. They make you change your mind to let them in. I have been hurt by many. People who were once my everything, turned out be my nothing now. I have one of the most horrible experiences in life regarding love. I once made a grave mistake giving up on someone who I did love but who loved me truly more than others. I gave up on him for someone else later who turned out to be an asshole. I never stopped loving that one person on who I gave up just for distance. I might have loved others more but still he was always there in my heart. After dating 2 other guys after him, made me realise how much of a fool I was. I regret breaking up with him so much. I wish things hadn't turned out like it did. I still want him to know how much I regret it but it seems as if he doesn't want anything to do with me even tho he says things at times which sounds like he wants me back. I wish thing go back to how it was. I was a fool to say yes to someone else who turned out to be the biggest asshole. This is for all the guys out there, not everything is about sex and not every relationships depend on sex. Sex isn't everything. Love still exists and never ignore the efforts of someone who wants love and care, not sex. Loving someone who doesn't love you back hurts more than anything. Hate turns into love and love turns into hate. I have been through this enough to know who really loved me. I regret so many choices I made in life but all I ever wanted was someone who would love me unconditionally and care about me and not be all about sex. I have cried myself to sleep for the people I have loved who didn't bother thinking about me for a second. Girls out there who have done this and have gone through this, trust me people say its not worth it and its true. its not worth it to cry for someone who doesn't give a damn about you. But we are girls and thats how much these things hurt us. I was always inspired by people who write about their experiences in life about love so thats what made me want to share a part of my life and my love life...
By zara hudda9 years ago in Humans
15 Most Common Dating Mistakes
Finding love can be a very difficult situation due to men and women not understanding what they are doing wrong. Here are 15 things to think about next time you are out on a date or thinking about getting back out into the single's market again:
By Susan McCord9 years ago in Humans
Embrace Your Singleness
My love life is a total joke, and I’m not mad about it. The reality is that I’ve never been the kind of women that WANTS to be in a relationship. When most of my friends were talking about their crush, I was either drinking or reading about fashion. No, I’m not an alcoholic, what I’m trying to say is that my passion for fashion, my family, and my social life have always been more important than guys (actually, any aspect of my life has been more relevant than love relationships).
By Dubraska Lima9 years ago in Humans
Important Things to Think about During a Divorce or Relationship Breakup. Top Story - April 2017.
Dealing with a breakup of a marriage or long term relationship will always be a very hurtful time but it doesn’t mean you are a failure or your life is over. There are thousands of people in the same situation but the good news is; there is someone special out there for you when you are ready to receive them.
By Susan McCord9 years ago in Humans
Signs Your Relationship Is Going Nowhere
When we really like someone, it's often human nature to want to get them to be in a committed relationship with you. For the most part, people will know whether or not they want to commit within a matter of weeks or months.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Humans
The Single Millennial’s Guide to Self-Discovery
At the risk of having my pending wedding invitations revoked, I have to start with the disclaimer that I’ve been in love, that it’s wonderful, and that I respect the couples that I know who truly complement one another -- This article isn’t for you. It's for my fellow single millennials whose compositions of friend groups range from the "happily married" to "previously married" to "never married but with children" and everything in between. It's for those of us deciphering societal expectations, questioning if they apply to us, and deciding whether or not we care.
By Nicole Mak9 years ago in Humans
Don't Ignore the "Red Flags" on the First Few Dates!
“Be aware of the big red flags & maintain some boundaries when you are dating!” Famous last words right?? It is not easy today in the world of relationships, dating and rarely meeting someone in a face to face scenario. Everyone is behind their technology screens and hoping & praying that they find someone they can eventually fall in love with.
By Susan McCord9 years ago in Humans
Can You Trust A Guy Who Ghosted Someone Else?
Ghosting is a sad reality in today's modern dating scene. It's the act of disappearing without a warning or a trace as a way to break up with someone. Most people agree it's an act of cowardice that says volumes about the person who does it.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Humans
Asking and Explaining
We know that infidelity often results in breakups, divorces and social stigmatization. Western society has frowned upon straying from one’s intimate partner, from the widespread reproach of public figures such as former president Bill Clinton, presidential hopeful John Edwards, actress Kristen Stewart, and professional golfer Tiger Woods, among others. Indeed, partner’s betrayal makes for great emotional upset, perpetuating verbal and even physical abuse. What exactly drives people to cheat? It’s worth examining the literature on people’s reactions and ways of addressing infidelity across genders, social status, and age. Further, cheating may be motivated by fulfillment of needs, the desire for self-growth, and different personality types.
By Kristine Brown9 years ago in Humans
Common Mistakes We Make In New Relationships
When starting a new relationship, many individuals can be a little overwhelmed at first, and, upon being overwhelmed, make a dumb error. We are all prone to silly mistakes, but sometimes these silly mistakes can result in something profoundly awful for all parties involved, including the eventual desolation of a relationship.
By Anthony Gramuglia9 years ago in Humans
