breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

to the boy who made me feel impossible to love
To the boy who broke my heart for the first time, To the boy who still lingers in my mind like an ocean wave that comes and goes,
By hannah irelan6 years ago in Humans
Don’t Kill Your Boyfriend. This Is How to Deal With Him If He Is Cheating on You.
For today’s storytime, I have to share with you the real life story that a friend told to me. I remembered this story and just how crazy it was, and so I had to call my friend Funbi to recount the story for me so I can share it with you. Without wasting anytime, let me jump right into the story because it’s such a good one!
By Jide Okonjo6 years ago in Humans
Choices
We all make choices. Every day, we wake up, we choose what to wear, what to eat for breakfast, what route we will take to school or work, and we just go with it. We make these choices, and we never really think about how they will affect us later on. Some of them will have very little effect on our lives. Some will bring us great joy and change our lives for the better. And of course, there will always be the ones that hurt us in the end. The hardest part about this is that we rarely know where these choices will lead us until we’ve already reached the final destination. Even if we do take the time to think about every possible outcome of a decision, we still won’t know what’s really going to happen. And let’s be real here-- no one actually does that anyways.
By Brandis Ajay6 years ago in Humans
Hunger at the feet of new love.
Today I´ve decided to let you go. To abandon the idea of us as a couple. I´m learning to look at your eyes and believe that this is happening.. we are no longer we. We have left each other but still feels like I´m waiting one more time for you to fill my lungs with air…but no, it seems like if this was a desert storm holding through this glimpse of failure, distress, and sadness. We can never go back to where we were. Am I all of me with you? I do not wish for my soul to beg, I should be your choice and you should be mine. But this modern way of loving confuses me, as I think you are confused too. We are now two adults too afraid to stick around so now I am alone with myself… whatever that is.How nice it felt to be a part of your choice for a while…
By Melina Janczuk6 years ago in Humans
but it ended.
People often associate those in toxic relationships with someone who is weak. Someone who doesn’t have enough self-respect to walk away. Someone who is tolerating a lot less than they deserved.
By Alexis Danielle6 years ago in Humans
Twin Flame Separation
If you are reading this, then hopefully you read my first story about the origin of twin flames. You may be experiencing a separation yourself, or just trying to prepare yourself for the possibility. Either way, I hope the following information provides some guidance and understanding to what you are going through.
By Angela Love6 years ago in Humans
Redefining forever
Relationships are the foundation of how we build our lives. It shapes our identity and becomes that norm or familiarity in our day to day lives that we often live for. Not just in platonic relationships but with the intimate/romantic relationships we develop with a significant other. We tend to lose ourselves into these relationships because we are so caught up in the possibilities of what could be instead of taking the treasured time needed to learn who someone is in the now. In doing so we can then decide if that person is the right person we want to go into this ultimate business/relationship with. I once read that relationships should be conducted more like a business rather than the fairy-tales we grew up watching. I must say this was the most logical method I’ve have indulged upon thus far about marriages or serious relationship. As for the lack there of; of this method, relationships tend to crash and burn leaving one or both persons to fell destroyed as if a tornado just touched down in their lives.
By Sasha hendricks6 years ago in Humans
To the guy who broke me
How come the end of a 3 years realtionship can possibly destroy someone? Well it all started when we met in the capital of Canada, Ottawa. We were 2 young adults in cooking school, in the same promotion. We started hanging out more and more until he asked me out on a date. The 9 months we spent together in Ottawa were amazing. We even lived together for about 4 months, adopted a dog together. Everything was perfect.
By Sara Damiani6 years ago in Humans
Catching a cheat
A private investigator once said, about catching a cheat, "You need to get solid evidence, which leaves no room for excuses or alibis". What alternative will there be for anyone, when presented with those findings? Apart from the obvious "OOPS!" I caught my cheat when I went visiting randomly. So Autumn 1992, for me, is a legend!
By Malcolm Sinclair6 years ago in Humans
Broken Promises
Amber was the first to hear the pounding on the door. She pulled herself from the enticing thriller novel she was reading and looked up. Amber wondered if it was her roommate Stacy, but it couldn’t be. Stacy worked until 11 p.m. She wasn’t going to be home for another five hours. There came another pound.
By Anna Dewispelare6 years ago in Humans
To the Young and Brokenhearted
It’s said that you become most like the people you surround yourself with and spend the most time with, I guess that’s why it’s so hard to lose someone you’re close to. In the act of losing someone you once shared everything with it’s not the only thing at loss, you lose a piece of yourself too.
By gray peters6 years ago in Humans
a modern Romeo and Juliet
“Roman, you coming?” I snapped out of my trance and turned my head to see Benny, Marcus and the rest of the guys looking at me expectantly. I almost forgot where we were going tonight, but then it came back to me that Marc had the grand idea to crash the Cabaret’s party. The Cabaret’s throw parties like this one all the time, just a reminder that they're still affluent. Pssh. Everyone knows you're a member at the country club, chill out.
By 𝚃𝚊𝚢𝚕𝚘𝚛 <36 years ago in Humans