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You Are Not Who You Think You Are
You Are Not Who You Think You Are The Human Being Between Physical Nature and Higher Meaning When we observe the human being through a purely biological lens, we see a body of flesh and blood, driven by instincts and desires that seem endless. The body seeks comfort, pleasure, and instant gratification, as if it is the center of the universe and nothing else matters. But is this the real definition of a human being?
By Ghanyabout a month ago in Humans
The Toothbrush Test
For six months after we realized I was autistic, I still wasn’t sure. I argued with myself about it. I kept wondering if I was just good at reading about things and seeing myself in them. If I was pattern-matching my way into an identity. If I was so desperate for understanding that I was convincing myself instead of discovering something true.
By Danielle Katsourosabout a month ago in Humans
My Balcony Butterfly Queen
It’s one of those blustery March days—warm one minute, chilly the next—and a slight coolness still hangs in the air. I’m nestled on the sofa, coffee in hand, gazing out the window where the afternoon sun casts long shadows across the leaves of the kumquat tree on my balcony.
By Water&Well&Pageabout a month ago in Humans
The Wisdom of the Radish Patch
The Lunar New Year chill still lingers in the air, but the sunshine filtering through the leaves brought a welcome hint of warmth. We set off on a winding trail of mixed stone and concrete steps, a path that seemed to stretch out into the distance with no clear end.
By Water&Well&Pageabout a month ago in Humans
Why He Fired Me
The Cruelest Man in the Office I used to work for a boss named Mr. Razak. I swear I never met a human as cold as him. He never smiled. He never asked how I was doing.
By Fathi Jalilabout a month ago in Humans
The Dangers of Unregulated Substances Sold Online: What You Should Know. AI-Generated.
With the rise of the digital age, buying and selling goods online has become second nature for many people. While this has allowed global commerce to flourish, it has also paved the way for illegal and potentially dangerous substances to be sold online. Unregulated substances pose a serious risk to public health, and it is crucial to understand these risks and how to avoid them.
By Dwayne Lindsayabout a month ago in Humans
Why a $200k Salary Can Still Feel Like Poverty
You hit the milestone. You got the promotion. You moved into the high-rise. So why does your bank account still feel empty?
By All Women's Talkabout a month ago in Humans
OpenAI and Microsoft Face Lawsuit After ChatGPT Linked to Connecticut M*rd*r-S*ic*de
OpenAI and Microsoft Sued in Groundbreaking Connecticut Murder-Suicide Case Tied to ChatGPT: At first glance, it looks like another lawsuit involving big tech. But reading deeper, this one feels different — heavier, more disturbing. It isn’t about data or patents. It’s about a mother, a son, and a quiet home in Connecticut where technology allegedly crossed into a space it was never meant to occupy.
By David Johnabout a month ago in Humans
Healthy Relationship Habits or Why Boring Love Is the Most Secure Love
The couples I work with who build marriages that last are not those that are buying flowers every week, but those who make small, almost invisible decisions every day. I’ll be blunt, passion fades if you don't maintain small, boring, but consistent healthy relationship habits, and it has absolutely nothing to do with that romantic part. Stick with me, and I’ll tell you the habits of couples in strong and healthy relationships, so you can make your everyday moments the foundation of something unshakable.
By Kim Evaziansabout a month ago in Humans
Beyond the Dollar: Practical Ways to Support the Homeless Community With Real Impact
Helping people without stable housing takes more than spare change. Real change grows from time, care, and action. Many people want to help but feel unsure where to start. This guide explains how to support the Homeless Community in meaningful ways that go beyond money. These actions build dignity, trust, and long-term progress. Small efforts, when done with care, can change lives and strengthen communities.
By Jett Harris of Arkansasabout a month ago in Humans
i kissed my bully on the mouth
It’s called cuffing season for a reason… and that reason -isn’t romantic -at all. what a visual. to describe one’s falling in love. “well I had my handcuff on and I liked her alright so I locked her in the other one and I guess we’re doing this now !”
By Amber Graceabout a month ago in Humans
The Beverage of Choice
Let me put down my mug of hot cocoa to better have a chat with you. Want some? Sure! I’ve got plenty. I just stocked up before you arrived, it’s a lovely trip into the country. Well, yes, I do live in the country, but there’s “country,” and there’s Country. I live in a dinky town surrounded by farms. It’s very different to live on one of the farms, with only other farms a good long walk away, as your neighbors.
By Meredith Harmonabout a month ago in Humans