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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

'Golden Girl’s' Burning Question
Okay, we as women know the score. We are conditioned to be nobody’s fool, to be independent, date excessively before settling down, go for the best and highest paid jobs...after all, our sisters back along the decades burnt their bras to afford us these privileges. What happens, however if you are not naturally sassy or are not channeling an inner bitch, waiting to emerge in your own defence? What is a girl to do?! Can you ever really be fulfilled and successful in life by being a “nice girl?” This is the question that I have been asking myself for a long time.
By Emma Haywood7 years ago in Humans
Languages of Love
Languages of Love There are five specific languages of love, five being my lucky number, so I thought I would share how I would rank them. I am not just talking about sexual love, but the love we show to everyone, including our family and friends and people we meet.
By Tonya Armenakis7 years ago in Humans
Sex, Honey, Money – The Deadly Cocktail Every Woman Needs
Sex, money, and power. These are the things that every person feels are necessary, in order to be happy in life. But, is this really so? Surely these ideas have a certain element of romance to them. Wonderful sex means feeling pleasure, having money means living in the lap of luxury, traveling, and buying nice things for yourself, and power means having control of your life. But is that really what it takes to be truly happy?
By Sylvia Smith7 years ago in Humans
The Dangerous Investment of Being Real
How to Avoid Being Real with Others From a young age, I've felt that there are two worlds that we exist in: the place that "exists in us," which is our very private and unique place called "the mind," "the brain," or "our inner world"; and the place that "we exist in," which is the more public and shared place called "reality," "the exterior," or "the outside world."
By Yuli Ruvalcaba7 years ago in Humans
Can a Woman Make the First Move?
So today I want to address the question: Can a woman make the first move? You might be surprised by the answer! So a few women have been coming to me and asking me how to get a guy to ask them out, or how to get him to even know they exist. They want to know if it’s ok, or even appropriate, to make the first move.
By Heart Centered Universe7 years ago in Humans
Heartbreak, Loss and Growth
This is hard for me to type, I never thought this would be something I would ever have to write but I think it provides a lot of life lessons for relationships. Not just for myself but for anyone wanting to be in a relationship themselves.
By Annie Curran7 years ago in Humans
Tips and Tricks for a Long Distance Relationship
Being in a long distance relationship is not an easy thing to do. Making a long distance relationship work takes every day effort, a good amount of time, and serious dedication. Only two people who truly love each other will be able to get through the hard times that come with distance, but if you know the right tips and tricks for a long distance relationship, then the process can become a little easier for anyone who is willing to try. Here are some of our suggestions.
By Morgan E. Westling7 years ago in Humans
Undeserving Love
When we’re little we foresee our adult life being quite picture perfect. You know someday you’ll fall in love and meet the person you are just destined to be with. There may or may not be a white horse sort of speak. However, when we grow to be older and start maneuvering through the wonderful world of dating, we soon figure that there are different kinds of love. Practical, head over heels, predictable, deep, undeniable, and well... toxic. We were never prepared for toxic love. We were prepared for flowers, feelings of butterflies and connecting with someone on a level only the two of you are aware of. The tricky thing with toxic love is that it in fact begins that exact way.
By Hillary Keen7 years ago in Humans
Speak Softly and with Purpose
How we speak to people says a lot about us and nothing about them. If you’re loud and bellowing, then that shows you lack self-control and are only seeking a confrontation and not a solution. If you are shy and soft-spoken, you are viewed as someone who is weak and not to be taken seriously. When speaking with others, it is important to convey yourself in a manner that says, “hey, this is important to me,” but that also isn’t threatening or domineering.
By Sarah Craig7 years ago in Humans
Boys: I Don't Care About You If You Don't Wear Vans
Lets start off by covering the basics. Everyone, I'm not as materialistic as everything in this post sounds. I'm actually the biggest grub ever and I wear the same shit week to week and I thrift all of my clothes and/or steal them from my ex's closet. I actually have very little standards for dudes that I date. Just the bare basics such as human decency. Respect. Confidentiality.
By Lauren Day7 years ago in Humans
3 Things That Lead to Heartbreak
One of my most important functions as a dating and relationship coach is to help people get over heartbreak. Before I can help anyone find the love of their life, it’s crucial that they truly let go of their past. If you’re currently struggling with a broken heart, check out this video I made about how to get over heartbreak here.
By Heart Centered Universe7 years ago in Humans
Relationship Red Flags
Toxicity in a relationship is never something that is present from the beginning. An unhealthy relationship, like any other relationship, brings joy from the new experience together. There may be a few early signs that your partner may show, but the main factor that makes us feel trapped in a toxic relationship is how comfortable we are with our partner. Things start off great and over time slowly deteriorate right in front of your eyes. But after you realize that your happiness is fading, you are afraid to leave. Sometimes the fear comes from physical abuse in the relationship but it is also very common for the problem to root from emotional and mental abuse. However, at this point you feel so comfortable with your partner and this life is the only way you know. You’ve forgotten how you lived before you entered this relationship. You’re constantly hanging on a thread that things will get better. Their promises are always empty but you're always hoping and praying that this time they really will change and things really will get better. If there was a way to know the signs and how serious they are from the beginning, surely you would leave right? These are the signs that you should look out for when you enter a new relationship and avoid the inevitable negative effect it will bring if you stay.
By Lo7 years ago in Humans