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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

30 Questions for a Deeper Connection!
You think you know someone well but how can you be sure? If you read through the questions below and can't answer the questions about some of your closest friends or family, then perhaps you can use these to get to know the real them. I have a similar post to this one but this goes deeper into a person's mind—so we can consider this PART 2. Please read that one if you want to find questions that will keep a conversation going.
By The Graceful Truth7 years ago in Humans
Long Distance
Long distance relationships, wow, that's a tough subject that can go in many directions. It can be seen as never working out because of trust issues or lack of communication or missing out on the physical connection that a relationship is built on. On the other hand, it can work out if you have a strong mental connection and both sides are giving 100%. It all depends on you and how you want to pursue it. I've been in long distance relationships and personally they are not my cup of tea, but that doesn't mean I don't think they can work. I'm not going to sit here and bash on those couples or make you doubt your own relationship. I'm here to share my experiences and give some advice because as I've said before I care about you and I want to give you my full attention and my thoughts.
By Mykki D7 years ago in Humans
Abuse in Teen Relationships
In today’s age, being in a relationship while you're a teenager is perfectly normal. After being in a relationship myself for a VERY long time, I have met nearly every issue a teen relationship could have. Gas money, where you’ll go on your next date, other girls/boys, stress with grades or sports, neediness , and just plain out disrespect are just some examples. But those aren't as big as what others go through. Abusive relationships don't exactly need to be physically abusive. There are different kinds of abuse.
By Julieann Alexander7 years ago in Humans
John and Jane Find Balance
It's been a while since we paid a visit to John and Jane, two characters that represent common themes in our every day relationships. Today, we will be looking at different methods they use to balance their time. Prior to living together the balance of time and attention was one of the main arguments they had.
By Katrina Thornley7 years ago in Humans
3 Signs It's Time to Walk Away
I think we've all been there. In some sort of quasi-relationship, but plagued with the thoughts that maybe this isn't the right person for you, and you're thinking about ending the relationship.
By Heart Centered Universe7 years ago in Humans
How to Prepare for Love
If you're struggling to find a suitable partner, or if you keep attracting the same types of people that just aren't right for you, then it's time to take a big step back and go within. Oftentimes our subconscious mind has been programed (through our upbringing and experiences), and this "blueprint" is what is pushing love away from you. These blocks need to be removed before you can find true love. You owe it to yourself and to your future love to do the internal work that is necessary in order to find real, lasting love.
By Heart Centered Universe7 years ago in Humans
Best Way to Keep Long Distance Relationships Alive
From experience, as a young woman dating someone whose nights were my partner's daytimes, I've been through it all. On top of it, I've learned the best lessons from it that I couldn't have ever imagined. I learned to establish trust, patience, and to show more sincerity to make up for the lack of physical touch and the caressing that most men desire from their woman.
By M S7 years ago in Humans
Love Language and the Importance of Understanding Your Partner
I’ve often been described as hot-tempered. I’m high in emotion. Sometimes I borderline on over-sensitivity. Coming to terms with my childhood and who I’ve grown to be has proven to be more of a challenge than I would have hoped. As I’ve become the 27 year old gay that I am, I’ve realized that I center in actions more than words as the old adage says. I very seldom would say, “I love you,” because I believed my actions show the love I have. I’m not big on words pertaining to love. I can go without hearing love words and still believe that I am completely loved, because it’s the willingness to relinquish your time and energy to me that shows me. It sounds bitter, maybe misguided and jaded, but it’s legitimately how my mind works.
By Triston Dyer7 years ago in Humans
How to Be Romantic With an Introvert
I am an extremely introverted and just flat out awkward person. And my poor husband learned early on that I am not a romantic person… at least not outwardly so. I am adamant that I do not like to be touched (but I do, just only in certain ways and at certain times and by very certain people), I claim that I don’t like cliché romantic gestures, and I’ve just always been difficult at receiving love.
By Jessica Rowe7 years ago in Humans
The Ultimate Guide to Stop Attracting Narcissists
Do you sometimes wonder if you could actually save yourself from constant heartache and pain? Have you ever felt like you thought you were in an exclusive relationship but you just wasn't sure due to their nonchalant attitude?
By Silena Le Beau7 years ago in Humans
Why Intuition Is Your Greatest Asset When You're Single
Your Life Partner Is the Most Important... The person you choose as your life partner is the most important decision you will ever make. It will account for 90 percent of your happiness or misery. Choose one person, and your life could be filled with love, trust, respect, and spiritual growth. Choose a different person, and your life could be filled with inflated egos, mistrust, disrespect, and ultimately, heartbreak.
By Heart Centered Universe7 years ago in Humans
The Past Forms You
I have gotten far in my short 25 years of life. I have gone through so many changes that I never thought I would experience. Growing up, I had the "white picket fence." I got everything I have ever needed or wanted. I was the only child in my family, so I guess you could say I was spoiled. I am thankful for everything I have been faced with. Some people deserve a shout out because they helped form me into the person I am today.
By Ashley Nicole7 years ago in Humans