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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Send Nudes!
In this current generation the phrase “send nudes”, has become a slogan. It doesn’t matter who you are, how old you are, male or female, "send nudes," can be said by anyone, but I think many would agree that men are more likely to, and are the ones who say this more. And speaking as a woman, a lot of us women have had their fair share of RANDOM! Guys ask them to send nudes. A dude does not even know you, never met you, has said barely two words to you, and the next thing he thought in his wonderful mind to say was, "send nudes," why! Why! Why! I honestly ask why, because I can’t even begin to think of the thought process in these guys' minds. I think for many it might just be pure lustful thought’s, because a guy thinks a girl is hot and wants to get his hard on. But I still don’t understand why, because there is porn, free porn, why not use that. I believe for those random send nudes, the sender typically has no respect for the receiver, why would you think someone you don’t know would do that, I know there are girls and males out there that can offer that type of service on social media, but I am speaking from the other side, people who are not into that business or into that type of stuff. Or maybe, after looking through a girls’ profile and she has revealing pictures, such as bikini pictures and perhaps portrays herself as an “Instagram model” the word we use these days, you think, just maybe she is into that. NO, it’s not okay, whether or not she is, it's just outright disrespectful to ask that if you don’t know the person, male or female.
By Chimdi Chime7 years ago in Humans
Top Five Wrong Reasons Why People Get Married
There is nothing more beautiful than witnessing a couple unite themselves in holy matrimony, and get ready to spend the rest of their lives with each other. The idea of having someone get down on one knee and propose is usually a reoccurring thought that goes through a lot of womens' minds once they get into a serious and committed relationships. While marriage has always been a symbol of the union of two lovers, most of the time, the intention behind the act of getting married isn’t always genuine. Instead of doing it for love, and the need, and want, to share a life with someone, some individuals get married for other reasons. Which in turn, tend to crush the marriage over time, resulting in divorce, the loss of capital and financial assets, as well as going through painful times, and learning karmic lessons. In this article, I’m going to go through the top five wrong reasons people get married, and why they should never be in the picture when you are thinking about making that lifelong decision.
By Spencer Jean-Mary7 years ago in Humans
Courage
So today was a dreary day where I live. Lots of thunderstorms and rain, which meant staying close to home and naps, lots of naps. So I used the day to catch up on much needed rest, hanging out with my son, and watching a few videos of some of my favorite speakers. Today was Trent Shelton, he was promoting his new book in a live video and taking questions from the Rehab Family. Of course, lots of people made encouraging comments, showed gratitude for the difference he's made in their lives through his words, etc. etc. etc.
By Cynthia Perez7 years ago in Humans
How to Keep Connected
One of the biggest problems that relationships face is lack of communication. Now this communication is not just about the relationship and sex, but things that they find entertaining and fun. Let's say you are not a football fan, and hate to hear about how his football game has gone.
By Author Billiejo Priestley7 years ago in Humans
Red Flags of an Abusive Relationship, and How to Get Out Early
There are many type of abuse, these are my experiences with abuse told me and what I’ve witnessed. I hope that this helps you to stay educated to know where it leads, before it actually gets too late.While many of these are "obvious" you will be surprised at how quickly you are sucked into it, if you aren't careful.
By Caroline Pereira7 years ago in Humans
Beat Around the Bush: A Millennial Concept
Remember the days where absolutely nothing mattered? I’m talking about being six years old and not giving a damn. Life was purely lollipops and rainbows. Well, for the most part that is. The days where you would chase a boy around the playground, and that would be your way of showing your utmost admiration for him. It was always mutually understood. At age nine, I began writing emails. Not just any emails though, long novels about how deeply “in love” I was for whatever boy gave me remotely any attention. Pretty ballsy I’d say. 13 was a time to be alive. I was asked out by a kid in the orchestra room because I told his best friend that I “really liked him.” A direct source. Basically, what I’m trying to get at is this: What the hell happened to ruthlessness of our youth?! Why am I terrified of rejection? Why do I get choked up over the thought of verbally expressing my feelings for someone? So many questions, 21 years, and I still don’t have this shit figured out.
By Miyah Henderson7 years ago in Humans
A Glass of Self-Love
As a woman in her 20s, I never thought divorce would be on the table. Finding myself wondering how does one bounce back after devoting the last few years to building a life with another person. There is no doubt that regardless of the outcome, I am hopeful. And as I look back in hindsight and toward the future, here is what I have learned so far.
By Gabrielle Maryse7 years ago in Humans
To the Toxic Person in My Life
Today I pray for you. I pray that you find peace in the world, peace within yourself. I pray you can learn to love yourself enough to not tear others down. I hope one day you can be so genuinely confident in yourself and your thoughts that you don’t feel the need to push them on others. One of the greatest feelings is being able to live drama free, even if that means separating yourself from negative people in your life. I pray that you will have the strength to forgive all that have hurt you so you will no longer be angry all the time.
By Nakoma Mull7 years ago in Humans
