advice
Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Get to Know Him
I engage in conversations with women daily, at work, on the phone, while out shopping, etc. I am a talker as well as a great listener. I pay attention to people words and actions. I recall a conversation I had a few months ago with a young lady that I’ve known for seven or eight years now. The conversation was about her not allowing her kids to see their father. I know the young lady and the father of her children extremely well, in fact, I remember telling them when they first got involved with each other that they weren't right for one another.
By Moranda Breaux7 years ago in Humans
Patience in a Relationship
To make a relationship work, you have to be willing to do things that you would not normally do, and if you are in love with your partner, those things may be effortless for you to do. But realistically, sometimes you may not be very keen to do them; that’s a relationship, everything isn’t always rosy. Sometimes when we start a relationship or are about to, we already have the “perfect” relationship in mind, we know how we want our partner to be, we know what we want them to do, and what we will do for them. In other words, we’ve already created a relationship in our minds before we even begin it in real life. When we do begin a relationship and things aren't the way we thought, we get disappointed, and this very well happened to me. It’s the expectations we set for other people that creates room for disappointment. If you don’t expect it, you can't be disappointed by the lack of it.
By Chimdi Chime7 years ago in Humans
7 Best Hacks for Young Couples to Preserve Love and Passion
How many loving couples flounder on the reefs of their own inexperience and ignorance? We would like to bring to your attention the top best tips on how to build a romantic relationship in a couple to make your life together happy and joyful.
By Alexander Povetkin7 years ago in Humans
Enduring Long Distance Relationships
As a woman in her 20s dealing with anxiety, working a part time job and going to university full time, a long distance relationship was NOT what I had in mind. But my heart had thoughts of its own and that’s when E came into my life.
By Brooke Sawatzky7 years ago in Humans
This Is For the Newlyweds
Recently, I found myself checking in with my husband to see how he was doing; how we were doing. I had sparked a fight the night before, which resulted in him pulling away from me and sleeping on the couch. Curled up in a ball, covered in a blanket and alone, I slept on the floor, because I refused to sleep in the bed if he wasn’t there beside me. By morning I felt a bit broken on the inside, as if some organ had been punctured, and everything inside of it was spilling out and I couldn’t stop it, but I also couldn’t find the source.
By Jacinta Faren7 years ago in Humans
First Signs of Abusive Relationships
First of all, if you have not personally been in an abusive relationship (whether mentally or physically), you have no room to talk.... PERIOD! I am so sick of hearing about people saying, "How could they stay?" There are many factors that play into the decision of when to leave or stay. People don’t realize mental abuse can ultimately brainwash a person. When you make someone feel so powerless, insecure, and frightened, they can become beings that they naturally never were. The results of abusive relationships normally result in PTSD, anxiety, or depression (if you are lucky). Some even worse… this is why I stress to PLEASE watch out for yourself and people you care about. If someone new they are dating shows some red flags, take action! At least be aware of the situation and always provide social support.
By Tonya Narzinsky7 years ago in Humans
