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Relationship Advice
What is worth all the stress? What do you get as an end result when reflecting upon the past? Isn't it called the past because it is already fulfilled? The past is a sign to move on; otherwise it wouldn't be called the PAST. If you keep taking the past with you every second of the day, it becomes tiring and unbearable in some situations.
By Ana Redding7 years ago in Humans
Six Ways/Steps to Deal With Difficult People
If you’re like me, you have probably had a run-in with people that either just rub you the wrong way or aren’t easy to get a long with period. And that’s okay. There are going to be times when it’s hard to get a long with people, and likewise, times when no matter how hard you try, someone just refuses to even try to get a long with you. So, here are some ways to deal with this dilemma (you might even be able to use this as a step by step guide).
By Woman With an Edge7 years ago in Humans
Relationships 101: Arguments
Sooo... a couple where both parties happen to be my friends is currently mending fences after what was a blown out argument. Now when I say this argument was blown out of proportion I mean BLOWN out of proportion. We are going to need to give them names otherwise this can get confusing also, you know to protect their privacy and shit. So we are going to go with Ashley and Sarah. Now for a little bit of back story. Ashley is very sensitive, and I don't mean your average run of the mill sensitive femme; I mean hyper sensitive because of past trauma in her life and she's a water sign *eye roll,* so you know how that goes. Now Sarah, she tends to be a bit of a hard ass, straight shooter, and let her tell it she's just extremely direct with how she approaches people and an almighty air sign. So I'm absolutely sure you can foresee how this shit is going to go.
By Ellie Zaie7 years ago in Humans
Tips for Motivating and Pushing Your Husband to Reach His Goals
You can find a thousand ways to reach your goals, but helping someone you love reach theirs doesn't come with a manual. We all want to see our husbands happy, and with a sense of well being. It's just good for their souls. We want to be their strength, especially if we see that they are kind of stuck in a rut. Nagging is undoubtedly not the way to motivate them, and it does nothing for the health of your marriage. Nurturing your marriage should always come first. You want to be a positive source of strength for your husband, someone he can count on for better or for worse. So, how do you help your husband reach his goals without being too pushy? Here are a few real-world suggestions that will get you started, and the rest tends to fall into place naturally. You develop an unspoken rhythm that will take a life of its own as long as you remain supportive and head in a positive direction.
By Indy Summers7 years ago in Humans
The Poison of a Cheating Partner
In ancient Nepal, a King ruled with absolute power and authority. He had lived the entirety of his life controlling causes to render particular desirable effects. So, logically, The King desired to protect his son, The Prince of Nepal, from any suffering he may have to endure. The King kept his son sheltered from any visible suffering beyond the walls of his kingdom, along with providing anything his son wanted at any given time. On the surface, it seems as if The Prince of this powerful dynasty will never have to endure any degree of suffering, however, the exact opposite was true.
By Ryan Singh7 years ago in Humans
Communication Is Key
A very important factor in a good relationship is communication. A lot of people would agree with me on this one. Communication in your relationship doesn’t just mean always having something to talk about when you are together, it also means talking about everything you feel and think about in regards to your relationship. Yes, the both of you might share similar interests in music, always discussing the latest albums, how this artist should have partnered with that artist, and all the controversies within the music industry. But when it comes to certain things you feel about your partner, you cave in and don’t want to talk about it. In one of my relationships, I used to think my partner hated to talk about our relationship, he always thought it was too serious a topic. And that’s true, for a lot of people, talking about their relationship to each other is “too serious” and it kills the fun. Just like you don’t have to be so serious all the time, it doesn’t have to be fun all the time as well.
By Chimdi Chime7 years ago in Humans
Keeping a Long Distance Relationship Interesting
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years, one of which we have been long distance. Many people ask me, how do we do it? I know it won't work for everyone, but from the time we began dating, we had a set time called, "Bae Time." Bae Time is basically a time when both of us just talk about life and reassure each other that this is forever. In this "Bae Time," which was at least an hour, we learnt to love each other correctly, to communicate, and occasionally, we also talk about how we can pleasure each other.
By couldnt leave it blank M7 years ago in Humans
Coming Out of Toxicity
Relationships—romantic or not—tend to be difficult. After all, you're bringing together two different people from two different worlds. You have different pasts and experiences. Different goals of sorts, and even different ideas as what life you would desire together.
By Sabrina Sthay7 years ago in Humans
Getting Out of a Domestic Violence Relationship
Getting out of a domestically violent relationship is the hardest part of the relationship. So many factors come into play. Where are you going to go, or how are you going to get the abuser out? There are usually children involved. What will happen to them? How do you make sure he/she can’t hurt you once you are apart?
By Jeanette Stingley7 years ago in Humans
