advice

Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Is it Over?
It can be one of the hardest things to accept that a relationship is failing. When we see the signs that something is amiss in our love life we do tend to become desperate and try to fix whatever is broken. Sometimes we do the complete opposite and ignore the problems. There are times when no matter how hard you try, nothing can bring back a relationship that is past its expiry date. It’s about knowing when it’s time to just call it quits and end things. Red flags can be easy to miss and sometimes they are so obvious but we don’t pay attention or maybe it’s because we don’t want to believe it’s true. The signs could be:
By Test6 years ago in Humans
How to Bring the Best Out of People
There are all sorts of people. Millions of them. And all different. Some folks are real perfectionists who like keeping everything in check and everybody on their toes.
By Antonia Lyons6 years ago in Humans
How To Get Along With People
Our daily life is made of endless relations with the external world. From the moment we get up in the morning 'til bed time, we would have spent our whole day dealing with other people.
By Antonia Lyons6 years ago in Humans
Negative Relationships
Be self-full it allows you to focus more on your inner self. - Carlene Charles I’m affected! Yes, I am, by relationships that consist of depleting me of myself. I never receive phone calls or messages from people to see if I’m managing within myself. I can count on my fingers the number of times I get asked this. I've however lost count on the therapeutic phone calls I give out for free. I don’t want to come across cold or unsupportive towards those that are around me, but how much do you take on before it starts to influence your mental wellbeing.
By Chantelle C6 years ago in Humans
Dating 2020
How do people on the self healing path, date? Consciously is the answer, be present and conscious of your karmic patterns. Immature behaviours need to be left in the last decade, we are moving forward and times are changing.
By Nakisha 6 years ago in Humans
Struggles of being Shy.
I've been socially awkward almost all my life. It's always been difficult to just speak my mind, especially when it is at a group gathering. I have the answer, but I always doubt my self. It would be at the silliest things as well. Such as what if I am wrong (when I'm not) and even if I am so what these people are my friends. But to my mind its a big deal.
By Autumninspace6 years ago in Humans
Teenage Heartbreak
I'm probably a little out of my depth here as this comes from almost a decade ago and is strictly from memory. However, that being said, I remember a lot about my first heartbreak. I remember it hurt. I remember feeling like things wouldn't ever get better and that I'd be destined to walk the earth alone aimlessly until my dying days. I also remember coming back from it after months of trauma and perplexing thoughts. But let's take a step back and rewind to the very beginning. Hopefully, here, you can understand that this thing you're going through isn't the end after all. Hear me out, and you'll come to learn that it really is only the beginning of something truly beautiful.
By Jord Tury6 years ago in Humans
You Look Happy, But You Don't Feel Happy.
For the last couple of weeks I've been feeling lost. Feeling like something is missing. Feeling anxious, Upset, Lonely and much more. I cried and cried and cried myself too sleep some nights wondering what has happened to me? why am I feeling the way I am feeling?
By Erika Busson 6 years ago in Humans
Gaslighting In Relationships
I never really understood what gaslighting was, until I found out that I myself was guilty of doing it to my ex boyfriend. Albeit, that wasn't why things ended, but after looking back, and my therapist going "yeah you really can't say those things to people", it was pretty easy to start to listen, and check myself. I've recently found myself in a situation where I kept going crazy, for seemingly no reason, and I couldn't figure out how 'something small' was turning into something huge in my own mind. To keep from gaslighting people and have them gaslight me, I've made a list.
By Taylor Klemmensen 6 years ago in Humans
Let's Talk: Lust Versus Love
Lust and Love. Let's talk. Part of Womanhood is discovering lust, this powerful and rather passionate energy that is so strong, many woman pay their bills just from lust itself.
By Sadé Anthony6 years ago in Humans
How to Save a Jealous Relationship
Is your relationship suffering from the evils of an overly jealous partner or spouse? Extreme jealousy can make life hell, not just for you, but for your partner. It can ruin relationships and end marriages. Here is how you should deal with it.
By Robert Turner6 years ago in Humans
Fractured and Abused
2019 has been an extrememly tough year for me. It started out at the tail end of 2018, I was in an emotionally and vulnerable place in my life. There were so many things going on that did not seem fair, so when I met this older guy, I thought this was it, my life was finally going to turn around. As 2019 approached, we became extremely close to one another. Everything seemed to be going great, until the abuse crept in.
By Annaliese Buhl6 years ago in Humans