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"Third world countries and international bodies"
World Bank and third world countries World Bank group have been feeling out all manners of lectures and money to help the third world countries in their recovery after covid-19 pandemic. But the questions most stake holders were asking is:
By Philip Ebuluofor5 years ago in Humans
The 3 People You Need in Your Creative Corner
I spent over a decade not sharing my work -- with anyone. I didn't trust anyone to speak a kind word about my work. Which is odd, considering when I was 13 I shared a few chapters of a novel draft with my mom and a writer friend ... both of whom LOVED the story thus far.
By Kaitlyn Dawn5 years ago in Humans
You should always, always, under any circumstance, follow your heart.
Four years ago, I wrote a post: ‘Should You Follow Your Head or Your Heart?’ I was never really content with my write-up, nor my findings. This new post, is my (more evolved) current conclusion to that (much faultier) conclusion years ago.
By Brooke Gallagher5 years ago in Humans
Beneficial Tips on How to Deal With Toxic Friends and Family
Toxicity is a trait that blind-sights us so well that we're unable to see the wrong environment and situation we've put ourselves in. Toxicity comes in many forms, but one of the most toxic feelings I have come across from is the presence of a few family and friends. Perhaps the worst part is that I blamed myself for all the chaos and destruction they caused. All along, they were the ones causing it. I came across this really funny but true quote that made me realize it's time to get rid of toxic people, regardless of the relationship you share with them. "Toxic people will pollute everything around them. Don't hesitate. .Fumigate.’’ – Mandy Hale.
By Amra Beganovich5 years ago in Humans
Pride Aside
When you're in a relationship we all know that an argument comes every now and then right? So what can we do to prevent them from happening or getting out of hand as they do? Well, I have learned that stopping an argument from happening is not about who can get their point across faster than the other one, and this also applies to when you are about to get into it with a stranger. The most common way to stop an argument from happening is always to "walk away and be the bigger person", and why that can be true it is not even close to "apologizing" when you were wrong! Lots of relationship arguments are often caused by saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, or moving the wrong way! While sometimes people can be sensitive it is always best to just apologize when you were in the wrong and knew that you were. For instance, there is a "myth" (some people love to call it) that women never apologize for their actions rather they defend them, and I can agree with that statement for I am a woman and I have experienced multiple encounters like this with my husband as well. Women tend to feel like "If I apologize then he thinks that he is over me or thinks that he won", but in an all-natural sense why would a man feel superior just because you apologized for a mistake or argument that you started? I am not saying that women always start the argument, but women have always been sensitive creatures that have an aggressive side sometimes I believe we can all agree on that! What causes a woman to be that way? What can a woman do to stop being that way? Why does everything have to be about who won or lost? Well, first and foremost a woman can get this feeling when having to apologize for something that she started, and typically just feeling that a man is trying to be over here causes what I like to call a "guard", and this isn't a guard in relation to when someone has hurt you in the past and you can't trust anyone after that...no I'm talking about the kind of guard that makes her feel like she HAS to react a certain way for him to understand or hear her! I do this a lot, so I would definitely know and I am not saying that every woman does this, but any stubborn woman does this and acts like it is natural when it really isn't at all lol. A woman that uses the "Guard Technique" is a stubborn woman and a woman that has waay too much 'pride'. Pride is also another example of what can make an argument hard to get over especially if both of you have pride! Those with pride always feel like they have something to say that could end the argument/situation, but they choose not to because of feeling "weak or feeling like that person will have power over them." This should never be the case because it will only make matters worse when feeling like an argument is getting out of hand simply apologize, when you feel yourself about to yell apologize when you feel yourself walking away apologize. Apologizing for your actions or mistakes will go a long way in your relationship no matter if you are engaged (like me), just boyfriend/girlfriend, friends, family, co-workers, or even just strangers because no matter what it was about you guys may see each other again, so tell me is the argument worth it anyway? On top of apologizing remember to put your pride aside because 9/10 the argument could have been resolved without any conflicts. I learned that apologizing goes a long way from my husband who has helped me throughout that journey, so I am hoping to touch other stubborn women with that as well and allow them to see that arguing for no reason is not cute at all it just pushes him away and sooner or later you will see a dramatic change, so try to fix it while you can. What I can really say is if you truly love someone and want something long-term wouldn't you change for them? I know I will and have all for my husband because he has been with me through thick and thin, so I honestly owe him that much to change! So remember to apologize when you were wrong and you will see so many changes in the way you will be approached it doesn't hurt to TRY!!
By Kitanna Covington5 years ago in Humans
10 Ways To Be Instantly More Attractive to Women
What it means to be an attractive male nowadays is anybody’s guess. I mean, I certainly wouldn’t know. I’m a web writer with a dad bod and have, somehow, scored myself a 10. On one end, you have women who love the archetypal beefcake—you know, the dude who posts his protein powder purchases on Instagram. And, on the opposite end of the spectrum, you’ve got women who dig the lanky hipster who swears by Wes Anderson, despite not having reached the credits in any one of his films. And then there’s… guys like us. The best bet we have to navigate the dating scene with no cohesive knowledge about what women want is to consult science… so I’ve done just that. Here’s the most compelling research on how to be more appealing to the opposite sex.
By Adrian Nita5 years ago in Humans
What was Once a Glass of Merlot
It had been a while since she had gone on a date. Quite a while. She was comforted by her solitude, by the warn cushions of her couch, and by the silence. But the pestering had eroded the last of her self-esteem. Her mother noted that there was a clock ticking and swore she was running out of time. Her sister built a profile and monitored it daily for Mr. Right in his digital shining armor.
By Karyssa Adair5 years ago in Humans
