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Lonely, but not alone
It had been raining cats, dogs, and mice that spring morning. A sudden flood of rain and she flooded by her numerous thoughts.
By Tanushree Jain4 years ago in Humans
Keep it Real
A lot of people look down on drug addicts and alcoholics. Why? Because society portrays them as negative people for the lifestyle that they lead. But. I’m going to tell you something. Call me crazy, but they are the realest people I know. They are honest about who they are and what they do, and they don’t try to hide what they do.
By Nerissha Hunt4 years ago in Humans
Amazing Beautiful Science Of Love – Understanding Real Relationship
People felt love was an art since human sentiments could not be studied in a laboratory. However, in the twenty-first century, some people wonder if love is an art or a science. There is a growing body of scientific evidence that the power of love may help you remain healthier, live longer, and be happier.
By victor014 years ago in Humans
Lessons from Marcus
Facebook had a blurb, Who Would You Talk to for 15 Minutes That Are Departed? There are so many people that come to mind. My parents, who have been gone for many years now. A friend who took his life and left way too soon. The best companion and friend I've ever had. He had four legs and stood beside me through life's ups and downs for 13 years. There's questions I want to ask. Feelings and thoughts I left unsaid. How do you choose just one person? You, Marcus, are the one person that has gone through everything I have had to endure. Death, suffering, self-sacrifice, and betrayal were all losses that you faced at one time or the other.
By Margaret Draper4 years ago in Humans
The Key to Living a Meaningful Life
Have you ever wondered what makes life truly meaningful? For life to be full of meaning, we need to enrich it with different experiences.
By Kristina Segarra4 years ago in Humans
A Letter To My Five Year Old Self
Hey, Baby. Wow, you turned five this year! That is a milestone that you probably do not realize is as big as it is. You've learned so much since you were born. You can communicate with your mom. You can tell her when you are feeling hungry, thirsty, when you are tired or cold. You may not always know how to communicate in the best way, but as you grow, you will. Sometimes it will still be hard, but you will continue to learn. You will be starting Kindergarten this year. I know that you don't really know what that means, but you are starting an incredible journey that will last for years to come. You will meet some awesome people and a couple friends that will last you a lifetime. Be careful not to get attached to too many people, as not as many as you would like will stick around as long as you think now. Let me talk to you about a few things that are going to happen in your life.
By Katie Gillispie4 years ago in Humans
The key to understanding human actions
No matter what you do in life or what situation you're in, you often wonder what other people are thinking and why do they do the thing they do, this train of thought often usually represents itself in moments of sadness and frustrations, but asking the question ''why?'' is a natural product of human curiosity that should be fed in order to learn, and while asking why your boss is so rude or why is your wife so mad can have really complicated answers, understanding basic human thinking and motivation is very simple.
By the unstable mind4 years ago in Humans
Valentine's Day In The Lonely Hearts Club
It's that time of year again, pink hearts are plastered to the walls, overpriced chocolate symbols of love fill the grocery store forefronts, and long-time husbands are preparing more for the "I forgot" apology than for a night of sweet romance.
By Juliette St. Clair4 years ago in Humans
Architect or Archaeologist
It is no question that architecture and archaeology are universally different in many categories. Architecture, being the art of building or designing structures, isn’t quite a scientific study. Granted, some components to architecture do involve scientific approaches and mathematical thinking; however, the overall field isn’t necessarily a branch of science. On the other hand, archaeology qualifies as a form of science. As the study of human history through the excavation of sites and the analysis of artifacts, archaeology is the apex of discovery. In a literal sense, archaeologists dedicate their careers to discovering how people of the past lived and moved across landscapes to piece together ancient human culture. Moreover, they physically dig up past material, even human remains.
By Jordan Craft4 years ago in Humans
Spreading kindness
It's almost Random Acts of Kindness Day (February 17, if you want to mark it in your calendar), and after a tense few years, we all can pitch in to make it better by giving back to our communities.
By v4 years ago in Humans
Everything is controlled by one's attitude.
but second is how we feel first it's how you feel about the past you need a healthy attitude about the past so that you use it not live in it but use it not carry it like a burden but let the wise lessons you learn from the past now serve as fuel to furnish the future next to a good attitude about the future you got to set your goals we look back for Experience but we look forward to inspiration we must be instructed and inspired no better inspiration than to set your objectives I began this process when I was 25 years old. literally rocked my world changed my life i had no idea it was so simple here's how simple it is decide what you want write it all down make a list of the people you want to meet make a list of the books you want to read make a list of the classes you want to take make a list of the skills you want to learn make a list of the Cities you want to visit make a list of the investments you want to have just make these lists here's the next key now start checking them off put a lot of little things on you some list so you can start checking off something right away that's part of the fun here's what's next if you check off something major celebrate because that inspires you to make a longer list of goals and put everything on your list little things insignificant to someone else important to you i put a Little revenge on my first list my mentor said it was healthy some of the people who said i couldn't succeed kid from the farms of idaho they went on my list couldn't wait to get my new car drive it up on their lawn say oh pardon me here's the money to have it fixed just little satisfaction my japanese friend toro ikeda san jose california put on his first list a caucasian gardener way back then everybody had a japanese gardener everybody japanese garden said i'm japanese i'm Gonna have a caucasian gardener okay little satisfactions right set your goals decide what you want write it down start checking them off it's powerful stuff next it's how you feel about everybody if you want to be a leader true leader entrepreneur of the highest order well-respected unique in your field here's number one how you feel about everybody and this is philosophical as well you cannot succeed by yourself so a unique sense of appreciation of everybody goes with the territory Of leadership it takes everybody for each of us to be successful one person doesn't make an economy one person doesn't make a symphony orchestra takes everybody for this gathering today all of you had to be here to make this gathering everybody if one of you were missing there wouldn't be this many people here everybody to make something work for the office whatever the enterprise takes everybody the gift of america is everybody who came over the last two three hundred years bringing With them, their gifts no country has become such a depository of the gifts of the world like America has over the last 2 300 years people coming bringing their gifts gift of language gift of learning the gift of politics gift of government gift of medicine gift of healing gift of music gift of the work ethic all this came in steady streams from all over the world making us unusual because of the gifts that were brought and to understand that and appreciate it now gives you open access to the market That's available to make your fortune now what i love to do is go back where these gifts came from not long ago I was in Rome had a thousand people in my class someone suggested Jim Rohn loves the music of Andrea Bocelli the blind opera singer from Italy so when they introduced me I walked to the podium and all one thousand of these Italians stood up and sang for me one of Andrea buchelli's songs in true Italian style tears I described it Later, I told my grandsons, "Here's the deal." Scene a choir of a thousand and an audience of one and that was me i thought here's where some of these gifts came to the gift of poetry the gifts so learn to appreciate the gifts now the last attitude is how you feel about yourself nothing more powerful than self-esteem which creates self-confidence the greatest steps towards success come from self-confidence and that comes from self-esteem doing what you know you should so that at the end of the day you have high self-esteem if I could Give the children of the world a box for Christmas for every day I'd give them a giant box of self-esteem and they'd open it up and see that it doesn't make any difference what you wear who you are what you've done what you own what you drive it's how you feel about what you're doing at any given moment in time self-esteem is the deep down inside the skin feeling of your own worth and that's why as the second winning attitude it is the single most important quality in In my opinion it's the internalization of value it doesn't make any difference what you're doing doesn't make any difference what you did last week doesn't make any difference what you're going to do tomorrow but it makes a difference of how you feel about your potential it's that feeling you know i give programs for young people in the summertime and they come to youth camps and I've been trying to help young people understand that it's not designer jeans for Tots and it's not what you're driving or what you're wearing it's how you're feeling that's why peer pressure is so strong you want to belong to a winning team they'll never be a human being more important than another based upon what you got or how you look or what you do it's how you feel about yourself and that's the most important thing the internalization of value internal standard not comparing yourself down or up with anyone using competition to keep You honest keep the quality in and the price right and setting internal standards and giving your wins away the three greatest fears that I've come in contact with in my life are the fear of rejection which is the greatest fear that anyone ever has it's greater than the fear of anything the fear of being made a fool of in front of your peer group why do you suppose the pressure is on young people to dress act and look a certain way it goes right up into adulthood we're all the same We're afraid to have people laugh at us that's why in kindergarten they raise their hands they don't care if they're wrong or right they just want to answer anything by the time you get to the fourth grade you begin to worry about people snickering at you and being wrong by the time you're in high school you say I ain't answering and when you're grown up you always play it safe with the same kind of friends who have the same beliefs and that's the way it is the
By Rashel4 years ago in Humans
5 Things Smart People Know About Their Brains
Your decisions are not yours at all, and your brain is very easy to bribe… Earlier, Moran Surf earned a living by professionally hacking bank security systems (sponsored by the banks themselves to test these systems), but today he is engaged in the professional penetration of the human brain. The former hacker and graphic designer became a professional neuroscientist.
By Anya Shepard4 years ago in Humans