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Relaxing Activities That You Can Have With Your Partner

Relaxing is important.

By David HardinPublished 4 years ago 4 min read
Relaxing Activities That You Can Have With Your Partner
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Do you have certain activities as a couple, pleasant activities, relaxing, fun, and that - very important - to take you out of the routine and daily boredom from time to time? And no, we're not talking about sex here! Do you have a common passion (hobby) that you can share or does each one have, separately, their ritual/activity to relax, unwind, have fun and enjoy their free time?

What is the importance of activities as a couple? At least two reasons should make you look for some activities and hobbies to share:

Get rid of the routine if you find some activities in the couple that you both like and that allow you to enjoy each other's company! Something fun, relaxing, and to do at least once a month… Apart from sex!

The routine continues and for many years it can bore you, suffocate you and make you feel the need for something new. And the problem arises when one of you is looking for something new outside of the relationship! So many people justify their betrayal of their partner by explaining: "I felt the need for something else"! So look for something else in your relationship first.

The couple's activities bring you closer, maintaining the intimacy between you, the communion, and the feeling of being a couple. It's not about the usual activities: sitting at the table in the evening and then together in front of the TV at a movie or show does not mean spending time together, but rather wasting time together, until bedtime!

Think about it: apart from dinner, TV, sex, the occasional birthdays, and meetings with mutual friends (in case you have), do you do something interesting, fun, enjoyable, and relaxing together, just the two of you? Or, when you have free time and feel the need to relax and unwind, everyone retreats into their world, with their hobby? He plays on the computer, she reads, he watches football, she goes shopping…

Ideas for activities as a couple - it doesn't have to be an extraordinary idea, something you've never done before, but something that only you can share, an activity that you can both enjoy. Have something to share and share, without others!

You can think of a sport that you enjoy or that you both enjoyed in the past. Get moving and feel like a couple, a team grows and strengthens. In addition, many sports are really fun! Go rollerblading, cycling, tennis, go swimming, try rock climbing - it's extremely exciting!

Exercising together will make you feel closer, not to mention that after a sports session, you feel more relaxed and more excited! Even bowling can be an extremely fun activity for you - the idea is to play alone, not in a group, to feel like you're spending time together.

Why not a game? What's more fun and relaxing than the game? Is he a fan of computer games? You can find a game for two that will entertain you too: one in which you can compete, for example! If not here's a new product just for you!

Even classic card games can be a fun way to do something together, especially if you play with punishments - apart from undressing, you can find a lot of funny or… exciting punishments!

Have you ever had a certain favorite place, a place where you went alone, where the waiters knew you, knew in advance what you wanted to drink and all the girls around were familiar and comforting? Look for such a place to share! A place where only the two of you can go and only together, where everyone will come to recognize you as "that couple who sit in the corner and drink rosé wine"!

Sharing a place gives you a sense of communion, it is comforting and will ensure you spend your free time together! For you will sit side by side or face to face and talk about all sorts of nonsense - but just talking about nonsense is important in maintaining cohesion. So, don't stay in the house - where you may be too attracted to TV or sleep, or be distracted by others, as you are on group outings with friends! Find a nice and nice little place where only the two of you will always go, without bringing anyone from outside!

Who doesn't love nature, the fresh air, the smell of grass? Then look for a couple of activities in nature. Find at least once a month time, fun, and budget for various outdoor outings or even hiking! A picnic and a long walk around the city, in the woods, can be extremely relaxing and enjoyable.

And at least once every few months, you can raise money for a real hike, two days spent somewhere in the mountains! Think about it: how much do you spend on a night lost in clubs? Give up three such nights and have the money to run to the mountains fast! In the summer, going to a tent is fun and exciting!

Are you energetic and uninhibited? Try dance classes: modern dance, Latin, waltz, African - you can have fun. In addition, dancing is a very intimate and passionate activity! He runs away as he hears the word dance? Then try a more "masculine" activity - karate or the-bo classes! Form your bodies, learn something new and you can go crazy!

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