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Love can't make do, life can't make do.

Life matters

By YOUWANPublished 4 years ago 3 min read

It matters what kind of people you choose to be with and what kind of life you live. Your marital status depends on your marital status. A good marriage should support each other and love each other. I'm in you. I'm in you. A meal, a word, every action, inch by inch. Talk well, grow old, and be the most suitable person in the world. The rest of your life is long, so you must marry someone who can give you a "good marriage". I know that many people not only don't have the energy to pursue a high-quality marriage, but also suffer from the "widower-type marriage". Everything in life seems to be alone, and the person who said he would love you, love you and protect you forever is long gone. In the long process of being together, each of us is trying to make love come to the end in his own way. Tried, paid, compromise, tolerance. Do not forget the original intention, I hope that the text can help you lost.

The top 10 factors that affect marital happiness, in order, are the couple's affection, willingness and ability to communicate and understand, mutual loyalty, children, income, sex life, relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between the other person and his or her family, and housing and household work distribution. According to the survey results, Chinese people have a high sense of happiness in marriage on the whole. Among them, those who have been married for less than 3 years feel "very happy", accounting for 81.3%, which is the highest happiness index. Only 68.8 percent of respondents who had been married for 7-10 years felt "very happy," the lowest proportion. What is a high quality marriage? "Live happily ever after." Not just in fairy tales, but in real life, couples must strive to constantly understand, create and rebuild relationships. A relationship is a construct that, if not maintained and improved, will decay over time, and one cannot simply expect a love relationship, like a building, to hold itself together. It is our responsibility to create the best possible state of our relationship.

The bond of marriage, not children, not money, but about the spirit of common growth, in the most helpless, the lowest point, he has to hold up your chin, straight your backbone, make you strong, and accompany you around, share the fate. At the end of the day, it's a good marriage that makes you grow and make you go out and be who you are. What really makes a marriage last is that both of them are appreciating in the marriage, not that one of them is bound and sacrificed to achieve the other's brilliance and glory.

All aspects are good: life, work, entertainment, there are contradictions can be mutual tolerance and mutual understanding, will not be affected by the child, the quality of life is good, she wants, not beyond his ability range! I think this is a happy marriage for Xinfu!

We often say that in the adult world, feelings are more important than likes. In fact, the "unity of three views" here does not require that the interests, preferences and ways of thinking of two people are completely compatible, but that they can seek consensus while preserving differences, and know how to tolerate, understand and appreciate. Just like Ma Yili's parents in In the Distance, she talks to him about love and he only sees reality. She wanted company, and he thought work was the most important thing. Two people will never have the same frequency, so get along naturally very tired. He's a great guy, but I can't get together. After all, a lifetime is too long. It's important to find someone you like, but it's even more important to find someone who is willing to respect and love you.

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