Let Love Speak Before Silence Breaks It

If there is love—then make him feel it, don't hide it.

Love, anger, pride—these feelings are very subtle, but their role in building the foundation of a relationship is immense. Many of us think, 'He will understand', or, 'Even if I don't say anything, he knows'. But the reality is—man is not a creator, nor is he an introvert. If you don't say it, if you don't explain it, if you don't express it—he will never know how much you love him inside, how much you are breaking down, or where you are hurting.

Only when you say love openly, its depth becomes clear. If you don't tell him that, how will he understand that your day begins with thinking about him and ends with imagining his face? If you don't tell him, he won't know that a little bit of his sadness can make your whole day sad. If you keep your eyes down, he won't understand the language of your eyes. So, without holding back the unsaid words, you need to say them at some point—absolutely openly, fearlessly.

When you truly love a person, your responsibility does not end just by being by their side. Then you need to be truly connected to them—in mind, words, and behavior. If you are angry, you have to explain it, but without hurting them. If you are proud, you have to share it, but without insulting them. Relationships are not just about being together, but also about trying to understand each other.

Many times we do this—we keep quiet when we are in trouble, we turn away, thinking that maybe they will understand. But if the person we love does not understand properly, misunderstands, or moves away—then the pain doubles. At some point, it seems that long-standing unspoken words, pride, and imperfections have built a wall that is no longer possible to cross.

Better yet—take some time out. Maybe at the end of the day, with a tired body, but spend an evening sitting next to them. No phone calls, no distractions—just the two of you. Make eye contact and tell them what you think. Ask them the questions that are piling up in their minds. Overcome minor misunderstandings with sincerity. A relationship is a fabric of understanding, where every stitch is woven with truth, an open mind, and unwavering trust.

Remember, you can love someone as much as you want, but to sustain that love, you need open communication, emotional empathy, and equal effort from both of you. A relationship is never one-sided—it doesn't last.

Give your person time, try to understand them, and speak your mind clearly. Unspoken words eventually become poison, and distance is born from that. If there is love—express it, if there is pride—share it, if there is a complaint—find a way to solve it. Only then do relationships survive, grow, and deepen.

In the end, I will only say this—there are very few greater pains in the world than losing the person you love. So as long as you are close, make them feel—how much they are yours, and how much you are theirs.

Remember, no matter how deeply you love someone—love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship. It takes open communication, emotional connection, and equal effort from both sides. A one-sided relationship cannot last.

Give your person time, truly try to understand them, and speak your heart clearly. Unspoken words eventually become poison, and from that poison, distance is born. If there is love—express it. If there is pride—share it. If there is a complaint—talk it out and find a solution together. A relationship is a joint effort, a sacred bond built on truth, mutual respect, and conscious effort.

Sometimes, even when everything seems fine on the surface, the heart still feels a little empty. That emptiness is often a sign that something remains unsaid, unshared, unfelt. So as long as you are close, make sure you show them—every single day—how much they mean to you, and how much you belong to them. Even a simple “Are you really okay?” at the end of the day can become the strongest thread in the fabric of your relationship.

Love is not just about feeling—it’s about expressing. And sometimes, that simple expression is all it takes to hold a heart close forever.