I’m Ugly and Nobody Wants Me!

I'm ugly and nobody wants me - how many teenagers haven't gone through this: being among those who didn't have the luck of an attractive physical appearance can destroy all your self-confidence; those who have won the lottery enjoy great adolescence, while those like you feel isolated and defeated…

Because in adolescence you are who you are in terms of external qualities - the general appearance and the way you behave when you do not look as good as others and you feel ugly and hopeless, you can go through real torments - you think you will never be able to to have what you want, you think you will always be alone, you think you have nothing to do and you are cursed to be that ugly and uninteresting boy all your life…

No matter how difficult your situation is and no matter how hard it is for you, let yourself be defeated and to believe that it will always be so is a wrong step. Because things change - and you can change - and only in adolescence is physical appearance the most important thing!

I'm ugly and nobody wants me - what are you thinking:

Look to the future. True - you will never become a handsome man (probably), although you will be able to get rid of some flaws that bother you… But you will see that in the future, you will not be judged just as you look! How you behave and what you do will be much more important! Even for girls, it becomes less and less important for a boy to look good - with maturity, values ​​change.

And a young woman wants a successful man and to be nice to her, not a sexy man and that's it! Sure, it seems like an eternity to you - and you're right; going through the integrated high school in the category of the ugly is torment and it seems to you that it will never end. But don't forget that you will get rid of the superficial environment and you will have a new chance in college and later, with the beginning of adult life.

Girls your age don't even look at you - they dream of Beautiful Girls; but later, if you get rid of your lack of confidence and if you do something with your life, if you look for success, you will see that things become simpler. Once you get the chance for a good future, once you get success, it will be easier and easier for you to get more!

He did not dream and did not give up high standards related to girls. The reality is that if you were put in the "ugly pot", then the beautiful girls will not look at you! And no matter how much you want a beautiful girl to like you, it's hard in adolescence;

But there are less beautiful, less popular girls who are probably going through the same problems as you. Girls who are certainly more interesting than beautiful girls (who, realistically speaking, tend to be superficial). Just looking at a person's appearance is a wrong step - so try not to do that too! Try to talk and go out with a girl who goes through what you go through…

Don't put everything to heart. "I'm ugly and nobody wants me" - now it seems as true as possible! Girls avoid you and probably make jokes, boys make fun of you… And it's not hard to lose your optimism and believe that this will always be the case…

But it's important to try your best not to blame other people's evil you let them destroy your self-confidence. Appearance can be offset by a lot of qualities - qualities you can have, as long as you don't think you have anything to do. Adopting an indifferent attitude towards others is the best way: if you show others that you suffer when they tell you something, you encourage them…

Ignore the comments and realize that just because you're not attractive doesn't mean you should always lose in life!

Make small changes. Is that how you think, "I'm ugly and nobody wants me and I have nothing to do"? When you go through this, it is very easy to give up and get drunk: to think that if you are ugly, you will always be like that…

But you can make small changes in yourself, which in time will be seen - no one is ugly and ready; there is always a defect that can be corrected, but you need willpower and conviction. You are skinny - exercise regularly and it will be seen in time; you are fat - keep a healthy diet and exercise and you will see.

You have acne - it will pass over time, but you can now try creams or even drug treatments; you have horrible glasses - think about wearing contact lenses; and very importantly, don't neglect your appearance just because you feel ugly; you have to look neat, so try to wear clothes that fit you and not grandpa's clothes; always have neat hair; to always smell good…

Develop your personality. You're ugly? Compensate by trying to become a person with other qualities.

First of all, develop your knowledge and be the type of person who can talk about interesting things at any time; develop a sense of humor - if you can make a woman laugh, everything will be easier; look for personal development techniques and work hard on your training; try to strengthen your self-confidence; to become stronger, less vulnerable; get rid of excessive shyness; learn how to interact and talk to others; to learn how to influence people around you through words and gestures; all this can be done with will and power - be interested in personal development and specific techniques (such as NLP - neuro-linguistic programming).

Reinvent yourself. Find an interesting hobby that will make you passionate, enjoy your time, make you forget about problems, and look attractive. A musical instrument; a sport…

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is not a simple cliché that will make you feel better. When you think "I'm ugly and nobody wants me", remember that there are other important things besides how you look. Look around and see how guys like you (and even uglier) have a person next to them - how do you think they got it?

Not letting physical appearance defeat them and destroy their self-confidence, working on their person, being charismatic, interesting, funny, caring, polite, successful, offering things more important than appearance…

All of this may seem like a word in the wind meant to make you feel better - but what if you realized that it doesn't just define your appearance and take small steps to get rid of complexes? Try to be a better person, gather your will and start setting goals, goals to achieve, unrelated to girls; you will see that with every little goal you achieve, with every little success, you will learn how to work to get what you want…