I HATE

I hate judgemental women. Now when I say judgemental I mean MEAN people who are so unfullfilled in their lives that they have to pick apart every post that is uploaded onto their social media page.

I come from an International background. We are known as "immigrants" and "WOGS", which means we LOVE to gossip about ANYTHING, but specifically about ANYONE.

I think most of you would relate and know which kind of people I'm talking about, and if you don't know who I am talking about; think about when you are on any social media app and someone you follow posts an outfit post and the first thing that bursts into your mind is that specific person that will message you and criticise every aspect of that post. THAT'S WHO I'M TALKING ABOUT!!

Hmmmmm....... they are annoying because they make you fear posting anything that's different and not basic because you fear what others will be saying about it since your own group talk so much shit about others.

I believe if you have a group of people in your life that do that, you will slowly become like them or think like them, and that's totally normal to happen. Adaptation. This is how it works:

- You listen to them talk about someone, and pick apart their life, lifestyle, posts, dressing, marriage, anything really; mind you you totally disagree but don't say anything because you know its moot.

- You begin to anticipate the judgements, the criticism, before you even sit with them and hear it.

- You begin to have counter arguments that open discussions about this stranger's life that you are picking apart. You see their point of view you tell them but also trying to show them that it could be totally opposite of what they think.

- You then start to ask them if they saw the latest post such and such posted or heard about just to open a discussion since it's such a boring gathering.

- You eventually and finally be the one to instigate the discussion and the judgements and the criticisms all by yourself and they end up just listening to you bash someone's latest move in their life.

I hate that I've become that person, it goes to show that the saying " you become like the people you hang around with" actually applies.

To most its actually not about the gossip, its the want and need to fit into the discussion surrounding them and not feel like an outsider or be the odd one out in the group. They just want to show that yes I'm releveant and I can also entertain with my latest gossip, and then it becomes an addiction to be the first one in the group that mentions the latest goss because everyone's attention will be honed on you and begin to crave it.

sighhhhhh........ I really HATE judgemental people.