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How to make a guy think more about you?

Just apply these 5 rules...

By HeartPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
How to make a guy think more about you?
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when I first met Suzen I literally couldn't get her off my mind I'd be writing article just like this and she'd be on my mind I'd be in the bathroom combing my hair and I'd look at the comb and I'd see her face I'd even be doing my favorite activity in the entire world and I'd be thinking of her the entire time okay fine that was a lie maybe I wouldn't think about her the entire time when I was doing my favorite activity but most of the time because I really did love her. The moral of the story is that if you're on his mind then you are doing well. 

In the relationship in this article, I'm going to show you exactly how to be on his mind non-stop by these 5 fundamental points of being liked by a man, this article is all about being on that guy's mind when you're not around.

1. Leave him wanting more 

one thing I always remember when Suzen and I first started dating is that we go on a first date or a second date or even our fifth date and she'd always kind of end things earlier than I wanted she had always just been "okay great it was really great seeing you but I gotta go", and I was like wait no I want to hang out more and then I remember other dates that I've been on a long time ago back when I was single, it feels like a long time now but when you go on a date and be like an eight-hour date and at the end you almost like have nothing else to talk about and when you leave that date you're thinking are we going to have literally any ground to cover on date number two which brings me to my second point 

2. Stay mysterious 

on the first couple of dates, you do not have to tell him your entire life story. On that first date leave some stuff for later maybe he even asked you a very specific question on a first date you can always just say look let's keep that for the second date it's kind of a bold move but a man like it. 

Some secrets by which you can make a man fall in love with you.

3. Don't be an instant texture 

we all live in a world of instant gratification we think of a woman texture and she responds let him think of you text you and then you respond give it a little time and the way to give it a little time is to go get a life go make things happen right if you want him to be thinking about you you have to be going doing exciting things with your life you can't be sitting at home watching Netflix eating, bandage areas every single night during that time like go pick up a new hobby, go figure out rock climbing, go do something fun that you've never done before with your girlfriend whatever it is. I don't care what it is just fill that time with something else other than you say your phone counting down the moments until you can respond to his initial text got it.

4. Poke fun at him 

when you bust his balls just even a little bit he's always gonna be wandering the back of his mind like is she into me or what's going on here and if he's always kind of wondering where he stands with you then he's gonna be thinking about you a lot and thinking about how he can get you to like him.

5. Just be authentic 

authenticity is strangely missing nowadays and remember, you can't fake authenticity. when you're being authentic and being real being the type of kind of goofy awkward person that you might be and then I certainly am whenever I go out and meet new people it's okay if you do something embarrassing or stupid remember it's totally cool and sometimes the very fact that you did something embarrassing is stupid is actually gonna make him like you even more.

The University of Texas released some really interesting studies about this phenomenon, they studied how simple mistakes can actually affect perceived attraction he actually asked male students from the University to watch recordings of people taking a quiz when people did well on the quiz but spilled coffee at the end of the interview the students actually rated them higher on likability than when they did well on the quiz and didn't spell coffee and they concluded from the study that sometimes being authentic and being weird and being clumsy like in that situation but can actually make you more likable in certain situations.

there are many secret steps to make a man obsessed with you. You just have to blend those steps into your daily routine, you can see those by yourself.

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