Experience is the best teacher

At some point, I find that I still can't comfort people very much, as if I don't say anything right. Because I am afraid of accidentally touching other people's wounds, I can only stand by and give a thoughtful word or give a gentle hug when I need it.

We always say that everything will be fine. Indeed, time is a good medicine, and those pains that have been experienced will slowly heal. It may be painful at the time, but as time goes by, it will always get better one day.

Life is not always as good as you think, although it is not so gentle to you occasionally, but you can be gentle to yourself. Everyone's life is not easy, and behind those seemingly ordinary things, there are also unspeakable heartaches of their own. I think people who have had the same experience will know this feeling better.

Don't repeat the mistakes you have made before, and remember the detours you have taken. The more things you experience, the more you will realize that the most important thing for a person is to live happily. If you are really unhappy, try to live in a different way. Because a static state is not necessarily good, on the contrary, if you make appropriate changes, you may be able to reap unexpected surprises.

There is never the word "easy" in adult life. While working hard to be yourself, correct your mentality and everything will be fine.

A few days ago, a friend asked me, "How can I get out of a particularly bewildering and confused period?" She said that she has been in a series of unsatisfactory work and life recently, and she is not in the mood to eat. When the people around him spoke, his mood fell even further.

I said to her: "Since we have troubles and confusions that we cannot escape in every age group, it is better to simply think about the positive aspects and do more meaningful things in ordinary times." Maybe this sentence sees It sounds a bit cliché, but it really speaks to the life each of us is going through.

In the new month, when I see that the goals I originally set have not been achieved, the books I want to read have not been completed, and there are still a lot of tasks waiting to be completed, I will feel that my life is a little "mourned". So in moments like these, I don't feel like talking, I plug in my headphones and listen to some music, and then I go through all the tasks at hand.

After doing these things, I will reorganize my room, and relocate most of the things appropriately, and finally read a book for a while, and then have a good night's sleep. You will see that this is both organizing your thoughts and regulating your mood.

The low period of life is always full of disappointment, but at the same time, the low period is also the performance of the rising period. Life is like a roller coaster, there will be highs and lows. May you learn to bravely climb up and rise to a new height when you are in the lows.

"So far in the so-called human world, the only thing I am willing to regard as truth is this sentence: everything will pass."

Growth is not just about changes in age and mentality, it is also a process of constant reconciliation with oneself. Come to think of it, unhappiness is often the norm in our lives. The bottleneck period in academics, the inability to do anything in work, the empty window period of single life, these will always appear in our life involuntarily, and we have to learn to face them.

Sometimes you want to find someone to talk to, so you flip through the contacts on your phone over and over again, but you don't know who to text or make a call to, so in the end you choose to turn off the phone screen. There is a saying: "Growing up is the process of muting crying." I think at the same time, it is also a process of constantly shortening sadness.

I know you want someone to talk to, but you just don't know where to start. In the end, you still didn't say anything, because you know that even if you say it, it won't change much. All these emotions, just leave it to yourself to bear and digest it slowly.

Time is really good, it will make those who used to be very painful become less painful, and also let those who are difficult to let go gradually let go, maybe you will still inadvertently remember at some point, but these are no longer important. . We always have to move forward, don't we?