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ADVICE FOR MEN (PART 1)

Hope some of you men actually read and take this advice into consideration when it comes to your ladies.

By Jessica MeiserPublished 6 years ago 2 min read
ADVICE FOR MEN (PART 1)
Photo by Annette Sousa on Unsplash

Women are very simple. I had recently seen a quote. It said, "In the beginning women will treat you the way they want to be treated. Then they start treating you the way you treat them." I find this to be extremely accurate.

I have talks with my girl friends all the time, mostly about how men don't listen. Recently i was talking to my friend (who will not be named). She had gotten in a fight with her man, she nags to much was the conclusion he came to. Listen guys! Women wouldn't nag if you guys would listen to us the first time we tell you to do something, or not to do something. Women don't like having to repeat themselves. If we take the time to talk to you about something, listen to us. All us women are trying to do is communicate with our partner so that you know what is going on in our heads. When you don't listen to us the third time we have to bring something up, we kind of give up. That's why when you ask us, "Are you ok?" We say "I'm fine." because you won't listen to us anyways.

We have had the exact same conversation with you soooo many times, that we just give up. We give up because it the first three times we had to have a conversation about something you won't listen the fourth time.

Moral of the story is, women are simple. We really are! All you have to do is think about us. Say you go to the gas station to get yourself a drink, "maybe my girlfriend/wife would want something too."

It's funny i used that example, because whenever us women go to the gas station/store to get something for ourselves, if we don't bring something home for our men THERE IS A BIG PROBLEM! Best part, that doesn't happen very often. BECAUSE WE ACTUALLY KEEP OUR MEN IN MIND!

We are literally constantly thinking about you believe it or no. When we want to buy a new pair of jeans, we usually buy you a shirt as well, because WE THINK OF YOU. Getting a drink, Oh snap, you're getting one too.

But not only do we keep you in mind with little things, we also keep you in mind when it comes to how a situation would make you feel. We psychoanalyze every possible situation before we do ANYTHING, to make sure we don't hurt you in any way.

Look, all i'm saying is, pay a little more attention. Listen. Keep us in mind. Now is that too much to ask?

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About the Creator

Jessica Meiser

I write based on how i am feeling, whether it be poetry, short story, life lesson, advice, etc...

Some of the things i write are dark, and some are full of light.

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