5 Complexes That Have Their Roots in Childhood

Many have heard of these complexes and even noticed them in acquaintances. But too few know what conditioned the formation of these complexes, what behavior of parents or other people conditioned their creation.

It's easy to get rid of them: find the cause and form a counterweight. For example, if they scolded you a lot and didn't praise you, start bragging. If they have been too strict with you and have not allowed you anything, start allowing yourself, and so on. and so on.

The victim's complex

The person with this complex considers everyone guilty of what is happening. His manifesto is that he does not decide his life and only objective circumstances and forces control all his events. Such people most often accuse the government, the economy, medicine, education, neighbors, husbands, wives, and sometimes even children. Everyone is to blame, and they can only suffer and complain. It is very difficult to communicate with such people.

The cause, which stems from childhood: lack of affection on the part of the parents. Such a child from an early age learns to manipulate with the help of illness, tears, hysteria, simulations, thus gaining little attention and pity.

Inferiority complex

Another well-known complex. In this case, the person suffers from imaginary defects of appearance, intellectual or psychological deficiencies. The keyword - imaginary!

Most often this complex has nothing to do with it. Or an insignificant defect becomes of colossal importance and begins to affect life and self-esteem. Did you know that smart people most often suffer from the inferiority complex?

The cause, which comes from childhood: the permanent comparison of the child with someone more successful, more beautiful, smarter, and more obedient. Focus on the child's external, behavioral, or mental deficiencies. Not only parents can cause this complex, but also any person important to the child (relatives, friends, sibling, teacher, etc.)

Quasimodo Complex

One of the most common inferiority complexes is when one does not like one's appearance. It should be noted that this is often an unobjective, invented, and exaggerated shortcoming.

Today, cosmetic surgery and most cosmetic procedures to correct or enlarge areas of the body stimulate these complexes of women to make a profit.

The cause, which stems from childhood: the constant criticism of the child's appearance.

Narcissus complex

The symptoms of this complex are self-love, adoration of the way you look, confidence in the superiority, and the unique character of the person. It is very painful to deal with such people, sometimes their life is bitter because it is not easy to find someone to match. Not only potential partners but also all those with whom you make contact - even those in the elevator - are drastically filtered.

The narcissus is unique, and those around it are unworthy.

The cause, which stems from childhood: excessive praise and exaggerated appreciation of modest results, the constant reminder that the child is the best. While he needed only a little unconditional love. Not for anything, but for no reason.

Don Juan's complex

It is a masculine complex when a man tries to seduce as many women as possible. He cares about quantity, not quality because he loses interest in his target immediately after he achieves his goal.

The cause, which stems from childhood: lack of maternal love, coldness, severity, and ignorance. All that remains is for the child to be content with the crumbs of an imaginary love.

Get rid of complexes and make sure you don't cultivate them in your surroundings, even if you do it unconsciously.

Remember: It's easy to get rid of them: find the cause and form a counterweight. For example, if they scolded you a lot and didn't praise you, start bragging. If they have been too strict with you and have not allowed you anything, start allowing yourself, and so on. and so on.