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11 Signs That Your Ex-Boyfriend Is Your Soul Mate

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By Fahim MathisPublished 4 years ago 4 min read
11 Signs That Your Ex-Boyfriend Is Your Soul Mate
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Separation is hard when you feel that you still love a person and you are not convinced that you have made the right decision.

Sometimes, after separating from someone, you are left with the strange feeling that that person was your soul mate, that no one will understand and protect you as well as your ex-boyfriend.

If you have a romantic nature, the idea of ​​finding your half, the soul mate, is very important to you. But what do you do when you have just separated from the person who was destined for you in heaven?

If the 11 signs below are confirmed in the case of your ex-partner, it means that you have to think seriously about resuming the relationship with him, because he could be your soul mate.

1. It was the deepest connection between you

Did you get along with your ex-boyfriend? Do you complete each other's sentences? Have you never felt such a connection with anyone? The chances of your ex-partner being your soul mate are very high if no one else has reached your soul in the same way he did.

2. You never hid anything from them

Did you tell your ex-partner absolutely everything about you and did you feel that you could open your heart completely to him, that you could talk to him about your innermost feelings and your shadow? If you feel that you can't talk to anyone about the things you've shared with your ex-boyfriend, maybe he's the half that's right for you.

3. You broke up because of a minor thing

Has your relationship been wonderful most of the time? Then something completely insignificant happened, which caused a precipice that widened rapidly until you broke up?

If you keep thinking about the reason for your breakup and you know it was a no-brainer, then maybe you should give your relationship a new chance. To repair the connection between you, it is necessary, however, to make sure that that reason for separation, no matter how small, no longer exists.

On the other hand, if the break-up was due to an important problem that has been going on for a long time, then there is no need to resume the relationship because that problem will certainly come back at some point.

4. You broke up too fast, not fighting enough

Although it is a paradoxical sign, if you feel that you have not done enough to save the relationship, it means that you have been thinking about your ex-partner and you cannot resign yourself to parting.

If he is in the same situation, the chances of you being a soul mate are very high. So do not rule out the possibility of reconnecting, even try to look at things as if you were in a completely new relationship.

5. You no longer have the same intense feelings as anyone else

The emotions and feelings you had with your ex-boyfriend reached their maximum intensity and you never felt the same with anyone else. Especially if you notice that other separations don't affect you as much, it can be a sign that the person you gave up is your soul mate.

In any case, it is normal to have feelings of sadness after separating from a person you care about a lot, so you need to let enough time pass before you conclude that your ex-partner is your half.

If you continue to miss him for a long time and you do not find joy in anyone else, try to resume the relationship with the one you broke up with. Sometimes a break in the relationship is beneficial and you can find your passion from the beginning.

6. You feel that your ex-boyfriend was making you a better person

Be completely honest with yourself and admit: did the partner you broke up with make you feel a better person? If he had such a positive influence on you and brought out the best in you, then it is advisable to meet him again. You have every chance of being your choice.

7. Your family and friends think your ex-boyfriend was the perfect half

Every time you tell your friends and family that your ex-boyfriend could have been your chosen one, do I completely agree with you? Then it means that everyone has seen how well you fit in. Sometimes you need a neutral and honest opinion to confirm if what you feel is real.

When outsiders - such as friends and family - give you an objective opinion that matches your feelings, all you can do is go back to your boyfriend, if he wants to.

8. Always defend your ex-boyfriend

Were you caught jumping in defense of your ex-partner every time you heard someone speak ill of him? This instinctive gesture could be a sign that the person was destined for you.

If when someone says negative things about your ex-boyfriend, you feel deeply touched, it means that you still have feelings for him.

9. When you were together, you supported each other

If you always felt his support when you were together, and you, in turn, gave him your full support, it means that you made a perfect team together, in which each thought of the other and wanted to help him to fulfill your dreams.

Only two soul mates can be so attentive and dedicated to each other.

10. You realize you're wrong in your relationship

Have you been apart for some time, but can't help but think that you're wrong about your relationship? You realize that you were the one who ruined things and that you should fix them too. Do not let your great love disappear, but be aware that the man you broke up with maybe your soul mate.

Admit that you were wrong in front of him and take the blame for parting because that's the only way you can win him back.

11. When you were together you felt safe

Didn't you find with anyone else that feeling of security that you experienced with your ex-boyfriend? In turn, did he confess to you many times when you were together that he felt protected with you?

If you have both experienced the feeling that you are at home with each other, it is time to put your pride aside and resume your beautiful relationship.

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