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10 Surprising Signs Someone Is Intimidated by You (But Won’t Admit It)

Decode the hidden behaviors of people who find you intimidating and learn how to handle these situations with confidence.

By Milan MilicPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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10 Subtle Signs Someone Is Intimidated by You (and What to Do About It)

Ever notice someone acting a bit... off around you? Possibly they're excessively decent, strangely removed, or awkward in your nearness. Chances are, they may well be scared by you and are attempting to stow away it. Whereas terrorizing might sound like something out of a superhero motion picture, it's frequently unpretentious and tied to how others see your certainty, accomplishments, or identity.

1. They Avoid Direct Eye Contact

Ever have someone dodge eye contact like you’re the sun and they’re afraid of going blind? It's one of the clearest signs they're threatened. Eye contact frequently means certainty, and maintaining a strategic distance from it can uncover inconvenience or apprehension.

Think about it—if your air shouts, “I know what I'm doing,” somebody less certain might feel like they can't level up. This avoidance is their way of self-preservation, even if it feels a little awkward to you.

What to Do: Try to make them comfortable. To ease the tension, use a warm smile or engage in casual, friendly conversation.

2. They Overcompensate with Overly Polite Behavior

Respectfulness is extraordinary, but when it crosses into too much territory—like consistent compliments or overstated gestures—it may be a sign of terrorizing. It's their way of saying, “Don't harm me, gracious, effective one,” without really saying it.

Analogy Time: Imagine a cat puffing itself up before a dog. The cat isn’t brave—it’s scared. Overcompensating politeness works the same way.

What Dot t: Respond with genuine kindness. Showing you’re approachable helps them relax.

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3. They’re Hypercritical of You

Sometimes, intimidation manifests as criticism. Why? Because tearing someone down is easier than admitting they’re impressed. This could be subtle—like nitpicking your choices—or outright dismissing your accomplishments.

It’s not about you; it’s their way of trying to level the playing field.

What to Do: Don’t take the bait. Stay confident, but be humble. A simple, “Thanks for your perspective,” can shut down unnecessary criticism without escalating things.

4. They Get Quiet Around You

Quiet talks volumes, particularly when it's not the standard. In case somebody ordinarily chatty turns into an emote at whatever point you're around, it can be because they feel out of their profundity.

This can be especially common in professional settings, where your expertise or confidence might overshadow theirs.

What to Do: Lock in with open-ended questions. By appearing interested in their conclusions, you'll be able to draw them out and make them feel esteemed.

5. They Try to One-Up You

You share a story about your weekend hike, and suddenly they’re scaling Mount Everest in their tale. Sound familiar? This competitive streak often stems from feeling intimidated. They’re not trying to belittle you—they’re trying to prove they belong on your level.

What to Do: Don’t turn it into a competition. Instead, acknowledge their achievements with a simple, “That’s awesome!” It shows you’re secure and not playing the comparison game.

6. They Avoid You Entirely

Intimidation can sometimes lead to complete avoidance. If someone keeps finding excuses to dodge meetings, conversations, or even casual encounters, it might not be about dislike—it’s about discomfort.

What to Do: If it’s someone you need to interact with, address it gently. A quick, “Hey, everything okay?” can open the door to honest communication.

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7. They Seem Nervous Around You

Wriggling, faltering over words, or unbalanced giggling are obvious signs of nervousness—and possibly terrorizing. They're not attempting to outrage; they're fairly overpowered by your nearness.

Analogy: Imagine being near someone you admire, like a celebrity or mentor. It’s easy to see how nerves could kick in!

What to Do: Be patient. A little reassurance, like a kind word or light humor, can work wonders.

8. They Mimic Your Behavior

Impersonation could be the sincerest shape of sweet talk, but it can also be a sign of terrorizing. If somebody begins replicating your speech patterns, gestures, or indeed closet choices, they can be attempting to adjust themselves with you.

What to Do: Take it as a compliment! But if it gets too intense, set boundaries subtly by emphasizing individuality in conversations.

9. They Talk About You Behind Your Back

People who feel debilitated might chatter as a defense mechanism. It's a way for them to handle their feelings and (tragically) pick up approval from others.

What to Do: Do not stoop to their level. Remain proficient and let your activities talk louder than their words.

10. They Overanalyze Your Words or Actions

“Did you see how they looked at me? What did they mean by that?” If someone seems to be dissecting your every move, it’s a sign they’re hyper-aware of you—likely due to intimidation.

What to Do: Be as clear and transparent as possible. By minimizing misunderstandings, you can help ease their anxiety.

Why Do People Get Intimidated?

It’s not always about something you’re doing wrong. People’s insecurities often play a big role. Your confidence, success or even personality traits might highlight areas where they feel they fall short.

Understanding this can help you handle these situations with empathy and tact.

Final Thoughts: Don’t Dim Your Light

Here's the thing: It's not your work to recoil yourself to make others comfortable. In case somebody is scared of you, it regularly says more about your frailties than it does about you. What you'll be able to do is be kind, congenial, and understanding.

By recognizing these signs and reacting with compassion, you'll cultivate more beneficial, more open relationships. And who knows? Your confidence might just inspire them to step up their game.

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About the Creator

Milan Milic

Hi, I’m Milan. I write about love, fear, money, and everything in between — wherever inspiration goes. My brain doesn’t stick to one genre.

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