sexual wellness
Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.
Pussy Control
Guys, we love it. We crave it. We want it as bad as we can want things (speaking to hetero males, of course). The problem is that we don’t know a damn thing about it and most of us don’t seem to be in a hurry to learn. That’s no way to run a ship, gentlemen. Could you tell me which sensory area most women focus on while masturbating (Stop giggling, idiots. This is serious.) Can you tell me what this means about how much the size of your cock matters? Would you know the Graftenberg Spot and whether you get it out by presoaking or using Oxi-Clean? I’ll bet you didn’t even know that there is another spot. If you want to please your lady, you need to learn at least a bit about these kinds of things and stop fumbling the fuck around down there.
By Mickey Finn9 years ago in Filthy
3 Things That Before-Sex Glow Teaches You About Loving Your Body
Preparing for sex is more than just working on your external appearance. The process truly does begin from within. That before-sex glow can be the ultimate confidence booster and is just as important as the satisfaction you receive after. How? Check out these top three things that glow can do for you:
By Paige Vahla9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions That Use All Five Senses
Our world—be it our day-to-day conversations or sexual exploits under the covers—is a product of the five senses. So often, the sexual world remains restricted to tactile sensations. We long to touch and be touched, but so often we forget our bodies are host to a number of other senses. The masterful lover learns that, in order to fully satisfy his or her partner's needs, he or she needs to explore more creative methods to bring his or her partner to orgasm. The following sex techniques will explore ways we can utilize every one of our five senses to bring our greatest sexual fantasies to blazing life.
By Bethany Tiamat9 years ago in Filthy
8 Places to Have Sex Outside the Bedroom
There are times when conventional run of the mill bedroom sex doesn’t quite put the fizz in your soda, just like the British couple who went viral this week, after CCTV footage showed the randy pair getting hot and heavy at the counter in their local Dominos. Turns out they were hungry for more than just their 12 inch Pepperoni Passion pizza. Sometimes the jokes just write themselves. If you’re feeling adventurous, but maybe want to make sure that you don’t get arrested, here is a little help, with the pros and cons of having sex outside the bedroom.
By Katya Krakowska9 years ago in Filthy
Must Read Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
Sex is messy. Yes, in the physical sense, but perhaps more so in the psychological sense: who do we desire, and why? What are the differences between genders when it comes to sexuality and behavior? This next statement might be met with a degree of skepticism, but the science of sex can enhance your relationships in ways only those who have studied it will understand. Sex researchers devote their careers and lives to unpacking the vast complexity that is human sexuality. I can't promise the books will be particularly sexy, but surely learning the science of sex will transform your sex life. Your relationship might be great, but sex and science are the perfect match.
By Dr. Harmon Love9 years ago in Filthy
What She's Really Thinking While Watching Porn with Her Man
What porn is to men, Romcoms are to women. Both involve fantasy, unnaturally proportioned actors, and of course the most unlikely of outcomes. Which is why couples don't always see eye to eye when it comes to watching these dirty little flicks before a romp session.
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
What Is a Multiple Orgasm?
There often, as a woman, seems to be an unconscious rejection of the possibility of having more than one orgasm. If men can only have one, perhaps it seems greedy, aggressive, or challenging to want more when with a man. That was a very 20th century perspective uncovered in the informative Hite Report by Shere Hite. Perhaps a woman who does desire more, is "unnatural" or a "nymphomaniac." More Mad Men era hyperbole started by men who probably didn't want to work too hard.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
Do Orgasms Feel Different Without Sexual Intercourse?
“Do orgasms with the presence of a penis feel different from those without? In what way?" One reason the clitoral-vaginal controversy remains with us is that the mystique of orgasm during intercourse is still very strong. The idea is that an orgasm during intercourse ("vaginal orgasm") feels much better than an orgasm without intercourse ("clitoral orgasm"). It is this idea which Shere Hite examined as part of the definitive survey on female sexuality.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
Let's Talk About Sex
For those of you younger generations out there, you might want to cover those eyes because this isn't censored. This is just a causal conversation about sex and those hormones that arose us. So grab a glass of that chardonnay or the bottle, and continue on...
By Beca Sayers9 years ago in Filthy
Why a Vibrator Should Be the Only Electronic In the Bedroom
I think we can all agree that sex is not the time for smart phones. There is nothing worse than being intimate with someone and, as soon as you’re done, they grab their smartphones and begin scrolling through Instagram, tapping "like" on all the girls you wish you looked like. The bedroom is somewhere for love and sex and all kinds of naughtiness; leave the smartphone and laptop out of the equation. (Unless you are playing your "in the mood" mix tape or watching my porn. Naturally). But there are some gadgets and gizmos that are made for this personal and intimate time with your partner (or your one night stand/fuck buddy).
By Samantha Bentley9 years ago in Filthy
Why Men Shouldn't Be Afraid of Sex Toys
Sex is great, and sex toys can make it even better, but many men seem to be intimidated by sex toys while their partners want them to know why men shouldn’t be afraid of toys. There are a number of reasons why men might fear toys in bed, but there are even more reasons why this is a fear to be overcome. Our time in this life is short, and there is nothing wrong with trying to get as much pleasure out of it as possible. Given that, why would you willfully deny yourself added fun and a better time? After all, it’s not like someone looks back at their life and smiles at all the fun they didn’t have. This guide will briefly outline some reasons men fear sex toys and then go on to explain why men shouldn’t be afraid of toys.
By Dr. Harmon Love9 years ago in Filthy
Quietest Sex Toys
Are you on the hunt for the quietest sex toys? Everybody needs that little space in their life to flick the bean or wank what’s in those jeans. Whether you’re fighting off nosy roommates, trying not to create noise complaints on your hotel getaway, or attempting to get some time in before the kids wake up from their afternoon nap, we’ve got you covered with a list of the quietest sex toys. That’s something that we understand. We’ve scoured the sex shops and located the ultimate quiet items for your pleasure. So run away, lock the door, and take your choice of the quietest sex toys.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
