sexual wellness
Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.
Abreast of the Breast
No matter what my weight has been in my life, smaller or larger, there has been one constant. I have big breasts. I sprouted breasts before all the other girls in my class and had to start wearing a training bra at age nine. By 13, I had Double D boobs and these days I would say they are around an H or I even though I still stuff them into Double D bras because larger bras are stupid expensive and hard to find.
By Sarah Sparks8 years ago in Filthy
5 Reasons She's a Virgin in Her 20s
Let's start off like this. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin in your 20s! Adult virgins are tired of being called PRUDE for not having sex at a certain age or following the social clock in general. They are also tired of being portrayed as shy, helplessly innocent women awaiting the dominium of a man (eww! misogynistic much?). If I had a dime for every single time I heard, "You don't look like a virgin" or "You didn't tell me you were a virgin!" I could... realistically buy me a bottle of whiskey (I ain't got a lot of friends). It's very ironic to me because as women, if we have sex at an early age, we are slut shamed, if we have sex at a later age, we are prude and "unskilled" in the act. If you haven't had sexual intercourse in your 20s, 30s or older, that is completely fine and normal. Fuck the virgin shamers!
By PHILLY THE AFRICANA8 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 3 (Brittany)
After Savannah, I was broken, I spent a while in and out of Juvi, found myself in a mental hospital on more than a few occasions, and basically gave up on love altogether. Then, I met Brittany. It IS kinda of messy how this all started with her, and I was older by a few years than she was. I was 18 when me and Brittany started fooling around, she had/has this childlike innocence that easily masks all of the pain and agony that she deals with on a daily. She's definitely someone who tends to try and find herself in other people. Now, at the time, I actually did care a lot about this girl. I was so blinded by having her around that I would even put myself in a position to be walked all over. She did mistreat me, but I took her purity and in that, she kind of just went crazy, became a slute for a while, and wound up with a daughter that she had to drop out of school for. This would be the story of WHEN I took her virginity.
By Zachery Lee8 years ago in Filthy
Is Depression Ruining Your Sex Life?
The short answer? Probably. The long answer: It's complicated. There is no doubt that the mind plays an integral role in sexual activities. In a successful sexual encounter, the mind and body are synchronized to maximize the pleasurable aspect of sex. But what happens when mind and body are not in sync?
By Celina Calma8 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 2 (Savannah)
So, now that we've gotten over one of the worst, I want to dig into one of the best. This one lasted roughly 6 months to a year. I legitimately LOVED this girl with all of my heart, but, in the end, found out she had been unfaithful to me in my darkest days. Either way, I present to you, Savannah.
By Zachery Lee8 years ago in Filthy
Just Sex. Good Sex. Magic Sex.
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a problem with that. I think what people do in the bedroom and the position they do it in, it’s not really my business. My point is that, with a little consideration and care in choosing the partner, sex can become the stuff of legends. For both sides.
By Oana Petrache8 years ago in Filthy











