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How Sexual Problems Arise in Couples And What We Have To Do

Sexual problems in couples start from cracks in our privacy, from unhealed wounds and unexplored corners of ourselves.

By Viorel SecareanuPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
How Sexual Problems Arise in Couples And What We Have To Do
Photo by Afif Kusuma on Unsplash

Over time, all couples have had to face difficult situations. Some are "easier" others much more difficult, which, most of the time, carry far-reaching emotional baggage. However, these moments or situations can be successfully overcome if the partners really want to see what they did wrong and look for the right solutions. In this article, we will show you why problems often arise in couples and how to overcome them.

Monotony breeds monsters

One of the most frequently cited reasons for arguments between couples is laxity, which gradually leads to monotony. This letting go can have many facets:

She's talking to him and he's too absorbed in what he's doing at the moment.

He lives under the impression that she will always be there and that there is no risk of losing her.

They both do the same things, day in and day out, after they get home from work.

As you can see, letting go in a couple can take many forms, each leading to frustrations and anguish. Of course, monotony isn't always such a bad thing. Even the adventurer needs a moment to catch his breath after hitting the world wide and wide.

However, as a couple, most of the time, the monotony ends up raising some question marks - Who am I? Who is he? Is this how we will spend our days until we die?

The solution is never simple, but by putting your mind to contributing, you will find a beneficial solution. There are many ways to "dynamite" monotony as a couple - go out together as often as possible, do small things that you have never done before, change your circle of friends or try to find a common passion. You can also try some potency supplements to spice up your bedroom life.

Lack of communication

Lack of communication is at the root of all breakups. Although many couples feel like they are communicating things, most of the time they are just talking. Communication means when the two partners signal, in a visceral way, some problems or frustrations that could jeopardize their reaction. Of course, it's always more comfortable and tempting to sit in front of each other and talk about what you did at work, gossip about your friends, or what interesting things you've seen lately.

The temptation is great, but don't do it. It's the miscommunication that creates that vacuum of feelings that we're convinced we feel for the person next to us: "does he still love me or are we just staying together because we're used to each other?"

Even in the cruelest moments, when you feel like everything is falling apart around you, try to communicate honestly. Remember that there was something that brought you together. With a little willpower, clarity, and impartiality, you'll figure out what that thing was, what was bothering you, and how you need to implement that change so that you can continue to enjoy each other.

Sex life

Sex as a couple is a very difficult aspect to approach. There are many cases where couples no longer feel attracted to each other because things are no longer the same in the bedroom (the same positions, the partner does not give you the stimulation you need, or has medical problems that can affect the quality of sexual intercourse).

However, don't look at this as a final and irrevocable sentence. Try to spice up your bedroom life by communicating with each other. You can try erotic accessories to turn something boring into something super exciting. Don't just limit yourself to the bedroom. Try having sex in other areas of the apartment as well.

If your partner's health problems diminish the quality of sex, then it would be good to see a specialist doctor. Also, natural therapies based on potency pills can restore his confidence to do more in bed.

Conclusion

To summarize the discussion, the only thing you need to keep in mind is that problems in married life will arise at some point, no matter how undesirable the thought may be. However, with the right attitude and communication, you will be able to move past this moment to continue to enjoy each other. Couples aren't born overnight, they're the sum of all the things you've both invested in over time.

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About the Creator

Viorel Secareanu

I share thoughts on photography and life, mostly lessons learned around things I’ve been dealing with the last few years, managing time, finding focus, and being happy.

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