All About Male Oral Sex

When it comes to oral sex for men to enjoy, although it seems simple, there are a few things to know. We have gathered them here to take your sex life to another level. You can call it fellatio, oral sex, blowjob, or whatever you want. The bottom line is the same, and how you deal with such a thing may matter a great deal in the relationship - or it may not matter at all, who knows. In any case, the guide here is to guide you in the moments when you actually decide to do it.

Oral sex (Deep-throating) is not necessarily exciting

You've probably heard, and not just once, that men are turned on by the idea of ​​deep-throating. Although it has no equivalent in Romanian, the term refers to deep oral sex (the head of the penis touching the esophagus).

As you may have guessed, the concept of deep-throating was popularized by adult films. Don't assume he would want that. Contrary to expectations, not all men find the idea of ​​seeing or rather hearing their partner drown during a love match exciting.

Here is a much better and more exciting alternative. Give him the illusion of deep-throating by placing your hand right on the penis (about halfway) and palatalizing the head of the penis.

Use your lips as much as you can

Another way to make him feel really good during intercourse is to use lips. Don't rush to give him oral sex. Instead, take a firm hold of his cock and run it over your lips, tracing the outline of them. This technique will blow his mind, making him want you even more.

Look into his eyes while giving him oral sex

Although for many women eye contact during oral sex is taboo, it is indicated. Many sexologists have stated that the absence of eye contact can make a man think that his partner is doing it out of obligation and not pleasure.

Kait Scalisi, a North American sexologist who has written extensively on the topic of eye contact during oral sex, said it can trigger an avalanche of oxytocin (the pleasure hormone) in both partners. It also stimulates areas other than the head of the penis

From an anatomical point of view, the head of the penis is the best-innervated place of the male reproductive system. However, you will have to keep in mind that it is not the only erogenous zone.

For example, a scrotum is also a place that can be stimulated with either the tip of the tongue or the navel of the fingers. The perineum, which is the soft tissue that separates the anus from the scrotum, is another erogenous zone. To give it fair play, we recommend alternating the stimulated areas.

Stimulation of the preputial frenum

The foreskin is the tissue that connects the foreskin to the glans. Popularly known as the "thread", it is extremely well innervated. If you want to give your lover or husband an unforgettable night in the bedroom, it is advisable to stimulate him with gentle touches.

To find the foreskin frenulum, decapitate the penis and look at the back. There you will see a thread-like tissue, with a maximum length of one centimeter. For stimulation, you can use your tongue or fingers. Careful! The area is particularly sensitive to pressure, which means that the risk of injury is increased if careless.

As usual, our recommendation would be to ask him straight up what he likes and dislikes about oral sex. Also, if you feel uncomfortable with certain aspects of oral sex, then the best option would be to tell him so, to avoid complications or future frustrations.