A Man's Need

The days of the man being the dominant sex are long gone. Nowadays, men and women are on an equal playing field when it comes to gender roles, and women have more power than they've ever had before. This is both a blessing and a curse.

Men are extremely complicated creatures. They don't know what they want. They're complicated, moody, selfish, ego-driven beings who need constant attention and validation. And it's up to us to figure out what that is.

What men want from women varies and sometimes it's hard to tell what they want. One day he wants you to share in his interests and the next, he doesn't want to talk about anything but himself. The thing with men is that they need constant attention and validation.

Men like to feel like they're doing something for you that will make them feel like a man. They don't understand that this might be difficult for women because we're used to juggling so many things at once.

A lot of times, when we give in and do what he wants because we think it will make him happy, it doesn't work out the way we thought it would. Men enjoy being in charge and making decisions for us, so when we try to take control of the situation, they get angry or feel rejected.

Men also have a lot of expectations about how their partner should behave or look which can lead them to be disappointed when they don't live up to those expectations.

This is not an excuse for treating women poorly though! Women should always be treated with respect no matter what!

Men want women who are their polar opposite. Men want women with emotional intelligence, strength, and passion. They want to feel like they're the only man in the world that you'll ever need or want. Men also want someone who can be their rock when they're feeling down, their best friend, and make them feel less alone.

Men don't want women who are needy or clingy. They don't want women who are overbearing or too controlling. Men also don't want women with an attitude problem because they will not tolerate it at all.

It's not always easy to figure out what a man wants from you. But if you want to make him happy, there are some basic things that will almost always work:

1) Listen to him and ask questions about what he's saying. This is something that men really want from women. They want their opinions and thoughts acknowledged. If we're constantly trying to interrupt them or dismissing what they're saying, we're going to really hurt his ego and he'll close off.

2) Give him space and time alone. Men need to be able to be away from us and do their own thing sometimes, or else they'll start feeling smothered and resentful. They need space, both physically and emotionally.

3) Don't pressure him into anything he doesn't want to do... In other words, don't force him into a decision! Men hate when they feel like someone is trying to control them in any way, so let them make their own decisions even when it goes against your wishes. The more power you give a man over you, the less respect he'll have for you in the long run.

4) Tell him how much you appreciate him often enough that it's not something he doubts constantly! Make sure he knows how much you care about him every day because it feels amazing when people show appreciation for your hard work or effort.

Being in a relationship is hard. It's even harder when you're dealing with men who are sometimes selfish, moody, or demanding. But if you want to make it last, here are some things you can do.

-Don't be afraid to speak up. It may not seem like it at first, but the more confident you are in your relationship, the stronger it will be.

-Show him that he's wanted and needed by being his number one fan and supporter every day.

-Help him feel good about himself by pointing out his strengths and accomplishments.

-Try to understand where he is coming from so that he feels heard, understood, and appreciated.

Men want a woman who is confident and independent. They want a woman who can contribute to a conversation and is interested in their life. They want a woman who knows how to have a good time and that knows how to be serious when needed. Men want a woman that they can trust and feel safe with.

In order to make a man happy, you should focus on what he wants from you. Pay attention to his needs and do your best to meet them. If you make him happy, he will make you happy too.