Please allow 30 minutes for family conflict

The world is big, everyone has a different definition of family, the structure of family is: father, mother and children. This is a small family, and the extended family includes the parents of the previous generation. Generally speaking, the structure of a family is a combination of relatives. Some people say that my family is very happy, so the family from a small family slowly developed into a big family, some people say that my family is very unfortunate, always because of the family events and small things very unhappy, so the family broke up. For the first 30 minutes, when we are faced with a problem that has already arisen, stop talking, because this will only make the problem worse, continuing to talk about the problem will make the problem bigger, and emotions will lead to arguments, fights or cold wars. As we all know in life, if things aren't working out for the best, please stop talking and discussing the issue. Give yourself and others 30 minutes to calm down and manage your emotions. The second thirty minutes is to think about the cause and effect of this problem, how to do is the most beneficial and best solution, the affection is home, think about those happy people at home, do not because of a small thing and upset overturned all happiness. Love is an important factor in supporting a family. Love is beautiful and desirable. You shouldn't be spoiled for minor family conflicts. Since you love the person you love, your family should see more of their own mistakes, or not good enough, to understand your family, perhaps this issue is so small in the face of love and your happy past. If you haven't completely let go of the conflict, give the other person a third 30 minutes and you need to communicate so that the other person can better understand their thoughts and emotions and get to know each other better. There is no one in this world who knows what you are thinking when you don't say it, everything is like this, don't expect the tacit understanding in the dog drama, what is in the heart, the real world does not exist. Tell your partner what you think and feel. This will make your partner know you better and love you more. Listen carefully to what your partner is saying and love him. Of course, I learned it from the wife of one of my classmates. It happened to be their wedding day. I went to their wedding and the woman was two or three years older than my classmate. She seemed much more mature than he was, which was probably why she was able to support her family so well. It was a little far from where I was staying, so I stayed in their city on the wedding day. In the evening, I stayed with his sister, with whom I knew well and talked for a long time. I casually asked her how old was her sister-in-law older than her brother, mature enough not to make much of a difference when things happened? She said yes! But her sister-in-law gave her a hint: If you don't know what to say at the moment, don't talk. Because there are a lot of emotions, it just leads to arguments. When I came back later, I thought about her words, so I pigeonholed them for myself to better manage myself and my family. There is no 100% perfect life, no 100% perfect love, and no 100% perfect family. If you love your family, please be quiet. In fact, this is very simple truth, many people can not do. I hope these 3:30 minutes will help you with your family conflict. I also hope that if you can't calm down, understand and communicate in thirty minutes, please be patient and give more to each other and yourself. Understanding and communication work best when things are calm. Understand and communicate within 30 minutes, please be patient, give each other and yourself more time. Understanding and communication work best when things are calm. Understand and communicate within 30 minutes, please be patient, give each other and yourself more time. Understanding and communication work best when things are calm.

Autumn is a year to wheat and rice yellow, smoke curl reflected in the village busy. In the busy farming scene I pass by train, the fields are covered with heavy yellow wheat stalks, and the green corn squares are reflected in each other. Thanks to the setting sun, the glow becomes yellow and green. Look at the cloud of jin can of distance, the day of red interval, line gives it is the face that the car window stares at for a long time however, pull out be full of those who do not give up to miss, as if blend into this horizon oneself, romantic daydream does not take a little flaw.

Thank you for the relaxation of the mood, let go of the quiet calm, like the dialogue with the sky, gentle and elegant

Family, is the vernal breeze in spring, people comfortable; Family, is the summer cold drink, give a person free; Family, is the fruits of autumn, on behalf of the joy of harvest; Family, is a ray of sunshine in winter, let people feel very warm. What is family? Children are flowers and families are fertile soil. What is family? Children are leafy branches, families are roots. What is a family, anyway? Is the root of everything. A harmonious family is the best future for us. As a member of the family, what can I contribute to my family?

Home is the only way to success. A successful future is possible only when you have a happy and harmonious family. We should do more to contribute to our harmonious family and make them more beautifulThe family is the cell of the society, the harmonious society cannot leave the family harmony, for the family, everyone has his own understanding. For example, home is the resting place of the soul, the gas station of life, the comfort of happiness, the outlet of trouble. In short, home is the most warm place to experience setbacks, home is our small stage of relief. For my family, ordinary, ordinary, comfortable, warm is the best portrayal. It's not easy to start a family. Each of us the qi to own life can be colorful, their family happiness, however, any family of POTS and pans collaboration, trivial incident, will have run out of tune cavity, life togeth is absolute, harmony is relative, this is the dialectics of life and treat my experience is that these questions: First of all, to play the part of your role in the family, conscientious, to love and honor each other, understanding each other, harmonious family is the need to attentively to operation and maintenance, in the family life conflict is inevitable, the key to strengthen communication and understanding, every family has a book difficult to read the classics, the best treatment method of conflict is, care, tolerance, love, humility, after all, to make a quarrel, I guess that's the secret to harmony under one roof