Thirty years old, free and vast
The meaning of life, is to grow up, although the gender is different, but do feel empathy.
In the spring, a little girl in 1998 followed me as an intern. It must have been a special fate. She had a similar name with me and was more kind, just like her little sister. Little girl with green, naive romantic, today inadvertently see her writing internship diary, looking at actually laughed. I told her the so-called "experience", she will carefully record, will also write down her bad places, young but very lovely, think, I should be so grow up.
I am seven years older than her, and will soon turn thirty by the end of this year. Most girls, between the age of 20 and 30, have many important things to accomplish in their life, such as study, work, even marriage and having children. If they fail to do so, it will attract a lot of attention and comments, just like handing in the exam papers late. This is really a difficult thing for girls.
Think about it. What has age brought me?
This is my seventh year in the workforce. From the initial failure in the postgraduate entrance examination to the lucky opportunity to get a good job, I almost stumbled into the workplace and spent a lot of thoughts on the work to learn and grow. In the first few years of my work, I either worked overtime or often went to the study room to read books and get certificates. Later, I went back to school to improve myself. The accumulation of experience and the experience of time really enabled me to grow rapidly and have the confidence to work independently.
This is also my seventh year of independent living. Since I started to work, I began to live independently. At the beginning, I met a good roommate to share a house, and then I had my own house in the back. The house is not big, but it is very warm, raise a lot of flowers and plants, that is breathing company, also spent a lot of thoughts to decorate soft clothes, the most satisfied is the eiderdown sofa at home, sink in the sofa to watch movies, it is really a pleasant thing.
This is also the seventh year of my growth.
As for sports, a young colleague I worked with had an accident. At that time, I almost woke up and began to pay attention to my health, indulging in all kinds of sports. Sports is really a matter of how much you pay, how much you gain, it makes me seldom sick, and also makes me light figure and happy mood.
About love, the past seven years is more like my experience of intimate relationship and trial and error. I have tasted the sweetness of love and also experienced the pain of breaking up. It is natural and logical for people to get together and leave each other. I am still single, but to take off the list should be a bit difficult, as the growth of the age, you will find that met with a copy of the feelings will be more and more difficult, the life circle of inertia will make your life more and more isolated, more and more rational to love you, it is hard to in a possible relationship to active, saying a lot of words didn't also the chance to talk about, Let nature take its course has become the most helpless and powerless excuse.
As for age, each stage has its own beauty, and internship sisters have many opportunities to try, experience, and make mistakes. For me, age brings me the ability to survive as well as independent rationality and warmth of character, which are all valuable assets. Growing up all the experience, are really into my blood, temperament, this is nearly 30 years old I ah. I have a lot of freedom and flexibility. I love my body and dress up my appearance. I am more confident and aware of my shortcomings.
I wrote a lot of words, thank you to see the people here, in the coming 30 years old this year, bless yourself, become a bird, to fly to the heart of the mountains and seas, free and vast.
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