How to keep love fresh?

When I was a child, I liked to go to a shop near my home to buy pancakes and eat them. The boss was serious and unsmiling. The pancakes he made were so delicious that the people who sold pancakes near him went out of business. But I really notice him, is to find his movement surprisingly fast, without any redundant action, "brush brush" a few times, well, say: "money in the box, the change for yourself." Off to my next client. Every time I saw that his movements did not change at all, I took my Casio electronic watch and gave him a watch. The result was that the battle ended in about 31 seconds miraculously. Poor man, I thought, he reminded me of a Chaplin mime: a workman is sent to stand in one position and turn a screw, like a robot, and so on and so on, and he goes mad. I think, this pancake stall owner is also such mechanical repetition, he must be not far from crazy. But what happened next was not what I expected. On one occasion, an aunt asked him lay a pancake face how, oneself could not do so, the previous unsmiling boss, and the method and the proportion of water and aunt chat along while, about his original selling pancakes in tianjin multi-purpose miso, now this way (the town in the north) how is the taste, and with what method and so on, reasonable, charting. He moved so fast because he was a soldier and developed the habit of neat movements. After retiring from the army and doing this line of work, he studied how to put all kinds of sauces and the position of the basin to ensure that the table was clean every time he finished. After a while, he developed a new way to eat it, working with a nearby churro stall where pancakes can be stuffed with churros. To see him again on vacation, he had rented a shop near the original location, expanded the scope of business, the queue to buy more people. At this point, you've probably seen what I'm trying to say. He's always exploring his field, he's got a higher goal, he's always moving forward. Is the life of two people completely unchanged when they fall in love? Regular dates, small talk, dinner, sleep. Then all this good life, all this good time has not been wasted. If two people are willing to live a better life together, willing to improve themselves and help each other improve, every day will be different. Can learn a musical instrument together, the best introduction to the guitar is good. From the simplest C, Am together, to use of a large, maddening to halting, grilled to song, the process of learning the skills of ascension, you will more and more in this topic, a master to go to the concert, will go to the shop, slowly have the foundation, will certainly want to record their own play, the recording this from the equipment to the shooting Angle, All of them have been studied for a long time. If one day you pick up your unfamiliar guitar and play your melody and her SOLO, it's really great. Practice a unisex sport together, such as badminton. From the high ball training, training pace, training running straight line cross, orang-utan jump, small ball, smash, chopping and hanging, each skill is worth pondering, need to practice, you can also form mixed doubles, participate in various amateur competitions, that will bring much joy. In this way, not only do you both improve, but more importantly, through these activities, you both improve together. You are always together. Wait until the leisure time aftertaste, think of the picture of working together, the moment of sharing the same boat, there is no better than this?