Friendship
The Embarrassment Countdown. Content Warning.
Month 1: Happy & filled with lust and Fantasies of a uniquely great future with marriage, home and kids. Imagined a whole life with you and it felt so real. Meeting your family so quick It felt like one of those LOVE at FIRST site type of situations. However I had noticed small lies but thought nothing of it because I’m a ride or die girlfriend. However OFF RIP, I realized with your action’s & dealings I might end up dead. Even then I ignored them because it was something NEW. Not realizing you are just like the last one just with a different face. During this month I seen a lot of things that should have made me just leave you alone. Not only did you lie about your living situation, number of kids, relationship status. You actually lied about small things such as money & education.
By Serafinaabout a year ago in Confessions
Recognising and Overcoming Your Flaws: A Journey Within
Recognising and Overcoming Your Flaws: A Journey Within In the grand theatre of life, the most profound battles are not fought in the outside world but within ourselves. Each of us, regardless of how accomplished or self-aware we may be, carries certain flaws—be it ego, laziness, envy, or anger. These imperfections are not just stumbling blocks on the path to our dreams; they can erode the very essence of our humanity. Recognising and overcoming these flaws is not merely a step towards self-improvement; it is the true victory of life.
By Dipak Pawarabout a year ago in Confessions
Recognise Your Inner Strength: Your Success Lies Within
Recognise Your Inner Strength: Your Success Lies Within Life is a journey filled with challenges, struggles, and unforeseen obstacles. At times, it feels like everything has come to a standstill—life seems frozen, and even though we yearn for success, it appears distant and unattainable. However, these very moments demand that we pause and turn inward, to recognise and embrace the immense strength within us. This inner strength is a priceless treasure, a source of unwavering determination and energy that fuels our journey forward.
By Dipak Pawarabout a year ago in Confessions
AI in Personal Assistants
The rapid development of Artificial Intelligence (AI) is transforming many aspects of our daily lives. Among the most noticeable advancements is the rise of AI-powered personal assistants, which have become central to smart homes and workplaces.
By Noorabout a year ago in Confessions
How to express anger
Anger is a part of human emotion, often a natural response to perceived injustice, frustration, hurt, or disappointment. Whether in family, work, or social life, anger is a common and unavoidable emotion. However, expressing anger correctly is an important skill that everyone needs to learn. Proper expression of anger not only helps maintain emotional health but also prevents unnecessary conflicts and harm. So, how should one express anger appropriately? The following discussion will explore this from three aspects: the nature of anger, principles of expressing anger, and practical methods for doing so.
By falcoabout a year ago in Confessions
Serendipity’s Embrace - By GODINK
Serendipity’s Embrace Discovering True Love in Unforeseen Places Love often arrives when we least expect it, in places and moments that defy the ordinary. This story takes us to Lagos, a city alive with energy, where two strangers, Sebastian and Isabella, crossed paths in the most serendipitous of ways. Through chance encounters, shared laughter, and unforeseen challenges, they discovered the transformative power of love—one that required patience, trust, and commitment to weather life’s storms.
By JaygodInk about a year ago in Confessions
Does Creativity Get the Appreciation It Deserves? A Personal Reflection
Does Creativity Get the Appreciation It Deserves? A Personal Reflection Introduction: Creativity is a powerful force that allows individuals to express their deepest thoughts, emotions, and ideas. For many, it is not merely a hobby but a way of life—a means to connect with others, challenge norms, and leave a lasting impact. However, when this creative energy goes unrecognized or unappreciated, it can lead to profound frustration and self-doubt. This article delves into my personal journey as a creator on an online platform, exploring the challenges of gaining recognition, the value of time and effort, and the ways to navigate the complex dynamics of publishing. 1. The Issue of Recognition One of the most disheartening aspects of being a creator is the disconnect between effort and appreciation. Despite dedicating countless hours to crafting stories, poetry, and lyrical compositions, my work often struggles to gain traction. On other platforms like YouTube, my creations have amassed hundreds, even thousands of views. Yet, on this particular platform, the response has been underwhelming. This discrepancy raises an important question: why are these works published if they do not meet the platform's standards or audience expectations? The approval process suggests a level of quality, but the lack of engagement leaves creators feeling undervalued. 2. Balancing Personal Satisfaction and Financial Goals As a creator, I have always approached my work as a passion project rather than a source of income. However, even hobbies require encouragement to thrive. For those who rely on creative endeavors as a livelihood, the stakes are even higher. Platforms that fail to recognize or reward creativity risk alienating talented individuals who could otherwise contribute significantly to their communities. When neither personal satisfaction nor financial benefits are realized, the motivation to continue dwindles. Creators begin to question whether their time and energy could be better spent elsewhere. 3. Questioning Publishing Policies Another challenge is understanding the platform's policies and algorithms. How does the platform decide which works to promote? Are there specific strategies that creators can adopt to increase visibility and engagement? For instance, if my work falls short of expectations, I would appreciate constructive feedback to improve. Alternatively, if there are techniques to optimize my content for the platform, clear guidelines would be invaluable. Transparency in these processes could bridge the gap between creators and platforms, fostering a more supportive environment. 4. The Value of Time and Effort Creativity is an investment—not just of skill but also of time, effort, and emotional energy. Writing, editing, and perfecting a piece demands dedication. When these efforts yield little to no return, creators are left questioning their choices. Time is a finite resource, and for many, it is the most valuable asset. Wasting it on unproductive endeavors can lead to regret and a sense of lost opportunity. For me, as a consulting engineer in petroleum constructions, my professional commitments often compete with my creative pursuits. Ensuring that the latter feels meaningful is crucial to maintaining balance. 5. Practical Steps for Improvement To address these challenges, creators and platforms can take proactive measures: Engage with Platform Management: Reach out to understand the platform's goals and how to align content accordingly. Diversify Publishing Channels: Explore other platforms to broaden your audience and reduce reliance on a single outlet. Build a Personal Brand: Invest in self-promotion through social media, newsletters, and collaborations. Seek Constructive Feedback: Constructive criticism can be a powerful tool for growth, helping creators refine their craft. Conclusion: Creativity is an intrinsic part of human expression, deserving of recognition and encouragement. While external validation should not define a creator's worth, platforms have a responsibility to support and uplift the individuals who contribute to their ecosystems. By fostering transparency, providing feedback, and promoting engagement, platforms can create a mutually beneficial relationship with their creators. For creators like myself, the journey is not just about producing content—it is about finding purpose and fulfillment in the act of creation. Whether as a hobby or a profession, creativity thrives in an environment where it is valued and nurtured.
By Ali Sadeek Ahmedabout a year ago in Confessions
Recognise Your Own Existence
Recognise Your Own Existence Your greatest strength lies in recognising your own existence. At times, life may feel overwhelming. You might wonder, "Can I really achieve anything significant?" Circumstances may seem unfavourable, challenges unending, and the weight of responsibilities unbearable. You may feel powerless against the adversities you face. But these thoughts are often illusions—tricks of the mind. Within your existence lies all the strength you need to overcome any obstacle life throws your way.
By Dipak Pawarabout a year ago in Confessions
My Vocal "Jealousy"
Introduction I don't do "jealousy" or "stress" but I do like things to be right and fair, not just for me but for everyone. Part of the reasons for this is addressed in this piece of mine, which ironically got a Top Story from "Vocal".
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred about a year ago in Confessions
